selling or keeping dilemma

hogged2trot

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I've had my horse for a long time now (over a decade). He was originally a family horse. My parents still pay for him until I get a job. Anyway, my mum and dad keep saying we need to sell him. He is on half loan but I don't ride him anymore. When I ride him I feel too tall on him now. He'll take me fine but I just find my balance is all out where he has a pony stride and i'm used to riding bigger horses. I have spent the last couple of years happy hacking him and riding more seriously for other people bringing their horses on. Slowly riding him has fizzled out. But I do love him and don't like the thought of selling him on. He is perfectly healthy, still jumping, hacking etc. But I just think of him as being old now he is 19. I can see what my parents are saying. They pay insurance, half the livery etc for in essence, a complete stranger to ride and enjoy. I've asked them to hold off a couple of months as I can then take over the costs, but then at the same time I think i'm going to be doing the same on a low income. I have thought that maybe I should full loan instead of half loan, that way the costs are covered but I still own him and can take care of him till the end. It worries me though that if people suddenly gave him up out of nowhere i'd have to find the full livery costs for him. I'm sure as a one off my parents would help since my mum rides him every now and then. What would you do if it was you, sell, full loan, keep tin current half loan arrangement?
 
if the part loaner you have for him at the moment is reliable then i would look for another part loaner to do/pay your bit so to speak. then if one could not keep loaning him for some reason it less time/money to find until you find another part loaner
 
Why not ask part loaner if they want full loan or to buy if you are happy with them and their care.
If selling I'd do asap at his age.
Or as jj says two part loans.
 
if the part loaner you have for him at the moment is reliable then i would look for another part loaner to do/pay your bit so to speak. then if one could not keep loaning him for some reason it less time/money to find until you find another part loaner

Ditto.

My daughters pony has been with us since she was 3 years old. I am worried for hers and my 25 years olds future as I am now a student and my hubby is questioning the ponies place in our future/life. I have just full loaned our shettie out to my sister for her daughter and my plan is to bring him back and retire him for my daughters NF who has just been out grown and we are struggling to justify her being here.

I think if your part loaner will take the horse/pony on that would be fab for you but if you think that gifting the pony/ horse would guarantee its future that's the way to go.

Sorry been drinking and got miser of hubby next to me lolxx
 
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