Selling the hard to sell horse

NewgirlCarly

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Hey guys new here. Not sure where to post this thread.
So the situation is, a bunch of years ago my sister was roped into buying a horse by our trainer. She was young and wanted a horse so bad (as a young kid does) our trainer sold her a horse. It was great *eye roll* Well the horse himself had a lot of potential and was a solid advanced beginner horse with a trainer. After buying him things went down hill. While they kept him boarded things were okay since the barn hands kept him behaving and he was being ridden often. I knew from my first ride on him that he was not a good fit, my sister is a timid rider and horseman, he needed structure and consistency. After they bought him we had to move him home due to our trainer moving and not being able to afford board. This began his bad behavior, he got away with things and became bored.
He weaves, wont load in a trailer, very reactive and spooky, does not respect fences, leads okay as long as you know what you are doing, hasnt been ridden in a while (He was doing level 2 dressage and was a decent ride. I havent been on him in a long time but last time I was he still had it in him. Can pop over a cross rail.) Cannot be pastured with or around other horses (He is extremely buddy sour to the point of injuring himself or the other horse trying to get to them. When pastured together he will chase them and kick them.) I believe he has ulcers, and to top it off he is in his 20s.
I know this all sounds terrible. I have tried to help with him or rehome him but I am not really allowed to do anything. I do think with time he could become the horse he once was and when I have had the chance to work with him he does well with a firm hand.
How do you sell or rehome this? Unfortunately he needs to go, my parents are older and cannot handle him. We have had to sell our other horses due to his behavior and I am moving my mare out in a month luckily. My sister is going off to college this spring so we need to do something with him.
 

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As far as I can see you have three options

1) Have him quetly put to sleep at home and know that you did right by him.

2) Get the vet out, treat his problems, bring him into work again and then sell him on with an honest advert and hope that he dosen't get passed on or treated badly for his final years. This option will probably take more time than you have.

3) Sell him on to anyone willing to pay a bit more than meat money and hope he lands on his feet and dosen't end up being transported for days before meeting a sticky end in a continental slaughter house.
 

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You sound like you are not in this country, so it may be completely different selling a horse like yours where you are.

But in this country, he's worth very little money and I agree with the people who say at his age, with his issues, it might be kinder to put him to sleep.
 

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Will anyone buy a horse that old? Even a wellbehaved one?

In the States, in some areas, horses sell for many times what they sell for over here. It's quite easy, for example to pay £10,000 to import one bought in the UK and still pay significantly less in total than it would have cost to buy in the US. There is also a tolerance of working marginally unsound horses which enables them to pass a pre purchase vetting, from what US based people have told me.

In the right place is entirely possible that this horse, poor fellow, is still worth what we would think was a decent sum of money, and will be sold.
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Sounds like you're in the States. I'd put him down, but you may be able to find a kind hearted soul who would agree to look after him for you. Selling for slaughter would be a horrible thing to do as there is nowhere now in the US that does that and horses are shipped to Mexico or Canada in awful conditions.

Can you not have a horse destroyed at all in the US?
 

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Yes sorry I am in the US. This was one of the first horse groups that popped up when I searched and one of the only ones that seemed more able to talk about the options without closing the threads and telling me to keep him.
I feel guilty that he was able to get this far but I want to make sure you guys know that personally I tried everything I could to rehome him when we were able to or work with him.
I guess in the US we are able to have a lot more subpar horses, we have more subpar horses than decent ones thanks to our ability to breed anything with a uterus. The lack of horse slaughter in the US makes it so these horses have no where to really go. And I for one am for opening regulated slaughter so horses like him do not have to go through the auction pipeline.

I will talk to my sister and parents and have them seriously consider euthanizing him. It probably would be the best case .
 

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If he is in his 20s, you have got him to a good age. It sounds like he has a range of issues, and will be on the property alone, and not have anyone available to take care of him.

As he is older, at some point (probably soon), his physical health will start to decline, and so the return on any work put into him now will be minimal.

He does not sound happy at all, and whilst it might be that you could find him a set up where he is happy, it also sounds like you have limited time and options.

I honestly think euthanasia would be the kindest thing to do- but I can understand your parents and sister not being on board with this. It sounds like they also won't let you school/handle him in the way you would like? In which case, as hard as it is, perhaps you have to tell them it is their problem to solve?
 

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It will benefit them and put the horse out of his misery. This horse is not a happy horse, he is miserable. He sounds similar to a friends horse who i tried with. Totally unpredicatble. Would be a lamb one day, a beast the next. Broke everything, could not be within 10ft of another horse but if he liked them he stuck to them like glue and would kill anyone/anything that came near to them etc and just could NOT be reasoned with no matter how you approached. Long story short he went back to the rescue he came from and the next home he was placed in ended in a wheelchair. Horse (finally..) was pts.
 
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