BethH
Well-Known Member
Hi, ideas needed please - this is long!
I moved my 20year old horse on Saturday (have owned him since aged 4) as the yard he was at has stopped offering overnight turnout. Because he has had a few medical issues over the years, the limited turnout means he has been constantly on/off lame for the last couple of years and he also started to develop lots of issues with napping as the yard has a couple of narrow paths where he kept bumping into deer so he became scared and panicky. Having never particularly enjoyed hacking alone although he would, it became a much bigger problem so I thought a move was needed.
I've found a fabulous little yard, really convenient location for me with as much turnout as I want over the Summer months and I can have DIY rather than livery so I can go back to looking after him myself, lovely other liveries - it's the perfect yard, just 7 horses in total and since Saturday he has had so much turnout he now looks very sound.
Now here is the problem. The owner of the new yard only likes the horses to be out in pairs and he has gone out with a lovely older mare also aged 20 who is very straightforward, he also has 2 other geldings out in a paddock adjacent to him. My horse seems to have decided that he shouldn't leave the mare alone and in a very short space of time has become a nightmare, I don't think it's because she is a mare, but he seems to have completely latched on to her and can't cope with leaving her. I've managed to walk him from the field to the stable on Sunday and he was very stressed so I gave him tea which he wouldn't eat and I turned him back out. On Monday he was so bad in the stable that I couldn't tack him up and after a few minutes stuck a long line on the headcollar and took him into the school where he proceeded to canter and fast trot for 20mins. Everytime I tried to slow him down or calm him down he just set off again. Tuesday I managed to get him into the stable because one of the geldings was working in the school which is opposite and he was much calmer although far from relaxed. I managed to get a bridle on but when the other horse left the school he was hysterical again and tried to barge out of the stable several times, I got him in the school and long reined him for 20 minutes whilst he again proceeded to run round like a luny unable to take his attention off the mare in the field who has now come into season! He eventually calmed down a bit and I walked him back to the field calmly, as soon as I took the headcollar off he took off at a flat out gallop to the mare. So today I couldn't get him out of the field safely, he calmly strolled to the gate with me, came outside and as soon as I headed for the stable he bolted and ripped the lead rope out of my hand and was then tricky to catch. I managed to get him back in the field and I walked back up to him whilst he happily stood there and I put his dually on which I haven't had to use for years and a lunge line on to lead him back to the stable, again he strolled out of the gate and then bolted pulling me over having unravelled the whole long line. I now can't get him into the stable, but got him into the school where again he ran round like a horse possessed. I feel I have to persevere with asking him to leave the field or it will become worse over time or should I just leave him alone to settle for a few days. He is putting the pressure on himself as I'd be happy just to give him tea and a brush and put him back out but he won't eat his feed and i feel he needs to burn of the energy hence the school. I've put valerian in his feed as a calmer but he won't eat it. Each day the behaviour is getting worse and I don't wont to move him as he needs the turnout which is really rare where I live.
He had behavioural issues as a young horse (age 5-8ish) due to KS and so although he had displayed many different behavioural problems over that period, for many years he has been a poppet, he is great in a herd and did have a period of time where he was only out with 1 other gelding with horses around and was fine. He has always been tricky, highly oversensitive and always ended up as head of herd as he is very kind but clear that he is dominant. He has been in mixed herds before but for the last few years has been geldings only but has never been particularly bothered by mares. All of the learned bad behaviour as a youngster has reappeared despite not having seen it for the last 10years apart from the odd moment here and there.
He is very well trained in hand, usually beautifully mannered and a joy to be around, we've done immense amounts of groundwork overthe years and have always had a great bond. I know this is panic, it's not personal or nasty I just don't know whether he needs time or work and told to get on with it and I am really worried about the bolting outside of the field.
Ideas please, especially on how to persuade him to spend 10mins in the stable!
I moved my 20year old horse on Saturday (have owned him since aged 4) as the yard he was at has stopped offering overnight turnout. Because he has had a few medical issues over the years, the limited turnout means he has been constantly on/off lame for the last couple of years and he also started to develop lots of issues with napping as the yard has a couple of narrow paths where he kept bumping into deer so he became scared and panicky. Having never particularly enjoyed hacking alone although he would, it became a much bigger problem so I thought a move was needed.
I've found a fabulous little yard, really convenient location for me with as much turnout as I want over the Summer months and I can have DIY rather than livery so I can go back to looking after him myself, lovely other liveries - it's the perfect yard, just 7 horses in total and since Saturday he has had so much turnout he now looks very sound.
Now here is the problem. The owner of the new yard only likes the horses to be out in pairs and he has gone out with a lovely older mare also aged 20 who is very straightforward, he also has 2 other geldings out in a paddock adjacent to him. My horse seems to have decided that he shouldn't leave the mare alone and in a very short space of time has become a nightmare, I don't think it's because she is a mare, but he seems to have completely latched on to her and can't cope with leaving her. I've managed to walk him from the field to the stable on Sunday and he was very stressed so I gave him tea which he wouldn't eat and I turned him back out. On Monday he was so bad in the stable that I couldn't tack him up and after a few minutes stuck a long line on the headcollar and took him into the school where he proceeded to canter and fast trot for 20mins. Everytime I tried to slow him down or calm him down he just set off again. Tuesday I managed to get him into the stable because one of the geldings was working in the school which is opposite and he was much calmer although far from relaxed. I managed to get a bridle on but when the other horse left the school he was hysterical again and tried to barge out of the stable several times, I got him in the school and long reined him for 20 minutes whilst he again proceeded to run round like a luny unable to take his attention off the mare in the field who has now come into season! He eventually calmed down a bit and I walked him back to the field calmly, as soon as I took the headcollar off he took off at a flat out gallop to the mare. So today I couldn't get him out of the field safely, he calmly strolled to the gate with me, came outside and as soon as I headed for the stable he bolted and ripped the lead rope out of my hand and was then tricky to catch. I managed to get him back in the field and I walked back up to him whilst he happily stood there and I put his dually on which I haven't had to use for years and a lunge line on to lead him back to the stable, again he strolled out of the gate and then bolted pulling me over having unravelled the whole long line. I now can't get him into the stable, but got him into the school where again he ran round like a horse possessed. I feel I have to persevere with asking him to leave the field or it will become worse over time or should I just leave him alone to settle for a few days. He is putting the pressure on himself as I'd be happy just to give him tea and a brush and put him back out but he won't eat his feed and i feel he needs to burn of the energy hence the school. I've put valerian in his feed as a calmer but he won't eat it. Each day the behaviour is getting worse and I don't wont to move him as he needs the turnout which is really rare where I live.
He had behavioural issues as a young horse (age 5-8ish) due to KS and so although he had displayed many different behavioural problems over that period, for many years he has been a poppet, he is great in a herd and did have a period of time where he was only out with 1 other gelding with horses around and was fine. He has always been tricky, highly oversensitive and always ended up as head of herd as he is very kind but clear that he is dominant. He has been in mixed herds before but for the last few years has been geldings only but has never been particularly bothered by mares. All of the learned bad behaviour as a youngster has reappeared despite not having seen it for the last 10years apart from the odd moment here and there.
He is very well trained in hand, usually beautifully mannered and a joy to be around, we've done immense amounts of groundwork overthe years and have always had a great bond. I know this is panic, it's not personal or nasty I just don't know whether he needs time or work and told to get on with it and I am really worried about the bolting outside of the field.
Ideas please, especially on how to persuade him to spend 10mins in the stable!