kc921
Well-Known Member
Hello all!
I am really stuggling to find a good sharer, my boy is on grass livery, the only "chores" they do is poo picking one wheelbarrow full on each of their days.
I have had 3 different sharers, due to their commitments (Family issues) or because I have moved yards (only 5 mins away from where the previous one was) they decided to not continue.
I am now on the 4th sharer, she gets on with my lad great and can ride him good as well. However, I have found out from one of the girls at the yard that she is taking the mick a little bit. She rode him out from 9 in the morning until 2pm and then took him out again at 2:30 till gone 3:30, the girl at the yard also told me when they got back the last time, my lad ran through the yard in a blind panic and jumped back into his paddock fully tacked and ran to the top of his field.
I have obviously messaged my sharer and asked what happened etc. and she explained, so I nicely went through the yard rules with her and I went over again the contract we both signed before the share begun, I also made it clear that I did not want her taking my lad out for that long of a time and only once a day, but the reply I got back was very sarcastic and almost childlike. I replied back again very nicely just saying don't worry about it, we have gone over it all now and i you ever have any questions/concerns then please do message me! To which I never got a reply back.
I am thinking about just giving up on sharing him out as I want him to be happy and healthy, but when I first started in the horse world I know how hard it was to find a share, so I'm a bit stuck on what to do!
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Thank you in advance!
I am really stuggling to find a good sharer, my boy is on grass livery, the only "chores" they do is poo picking one wheelbarrow full on each of their days.
I have had 3 different sharers, due to their commitments (Family issues) or because I have moved yards (only 5 mins away from where the previous one was) they decided to not continue.
I am now on the 4th sharer, she gets on with my lad great and can ride him good as well. However, I have found out from one of the girls at the yard that she is taking the mick a little bit. She rode him out from 9 in the morning until 2pm and then took him out again at 2:30 till gone 3:30, the girl at the yard also told me when they got back the last time, my lad ran through the yard in a blind panic and jumped back into his paddock fully tacked and ran to the top of his field.
I have obviously messaged my sharer and asked what happened etc. and she explained, so I nicely went through the yard rules with her and I went over again the contract we both signed before the share begun, I also made it clear that I did not want her taking my lad out for that long of a time and only once a day, but the reply I got back was very sarcastic and almost childlike. I replied back again very nicely just saying don't worry about it, we have gone over it all now and i you ever have any questions/concerns then please do message me! To which I never got a reply back.
I am thinking about just giving up on sharing him out as I want him to be happy and healthy, but when I first started in the horse world I know how hard it was to find a share, so I'm a bit stuck on what to do!
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Thank you in advance!