Sharing question.....two people....

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have emailed about Chloe....do I let both of them see Chloe, or one at a time, giving the person who emailed first the choice (if they are deemed suitable etc....) or do they both have to 'be picked' so to speak - sorry, in a bit of a muddle! How does it work? Is it sort of first come first serve...?
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ETS - I didn't mean both at the same time, sorry it looks that way! I meant both of them see Chloe before I decide, or if the first one seems suitable etc...do I just go for it rather than let the 2nd person see Chloe.?
 
Okay, will do that then. thanks.
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Yeah thats what I'd do too. Turned out when I found my share they had seen someone else from here too but didnt tell either of us.... i actually didnt mind as they have 2 horses but i think the other girl would of liked to of been told!
 
I would see both of them and decide which (if either) is going to be most suitable but be honest that you have more than one person interested.
Having been through looking for a sharer for my horse, it is difficult to find the right person so I would keep my options open until I'd seen both of them. Just don't promise anything until you've seen both and can decide who will suit you or your horse best.
 
Treat it like a job interview. Let them know they are not the only person you are considering, and then pick the one that suits you and your horse best. One might be a better rider, for example, but the other person might be the one you feel you'll get along with better. You need to weigh up all their pros and cons.
 
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