Should I encourage her to persevere?

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Sorry - bit of a long one.

My daughter got a new horse in March, he is a 5yo 3/4 ID. She got him after loosing her horse of a life time last Nov. At the time we were looking nothing was 'floating her boat'. I was very pregnant and at one point I did get a bit stern and say to her, 'look here, you are never going to be able to find another Almera so just accept a new horse is going to be different'.

Anyhoo we found Bill, passed 5 stage vetting, vet noted lack of muscle on back end but said it would improve with correct work. Came home, all was well. A few weeks in the farrier asked if vetting had picked up he was a shiverer (right hind) - no!
Also having terrible problems with head shaking and canter.
Had dentist, saddler and physio out. Teeth a little sharp, saddler and physio agreed he was very immature for his age, needed to go back a stage. Physio felt he had been tied in and down and not been able to use himself properly, also she was not convinced he is a true shiverer. She recommended treating him like a 3 or 4 year old, walking, trotting, poles, hacking and only try cantering when he is working better at the slower paces.

Add to this he would turn himself inside out hacking alone, fall over when he spooked and would normally require D to get off at least 3 or 4 times to lead him as he would plant. Also he scours terribly in anticipation of hacking or at anything slightly different/exciting.

Fast forward 8 months. His back end looks much better now, walking and trot are OK. He will canter but still very difficult on right rein, uses head as a pendulum, holds his breath, grunts, sometimes will just go up and down instead of forward, usually swinging his neck at the same time.
Will hack out now, fairly good in traffic, still very spooky but doesn't fall over, never relaxes and doesn't seem to enjoy it at all - not fun for either of them. Has had D off several times over the summer spooking, last time ending in broken ribs and chasing him several miles across a ploughed field.

She tried him over a couple of tiny x poles just for variety. He seems to enjoy it but just drags his back end through.

A fortnight ago I got a new cob and it seems to have set Bill back months and made him very anxious. Last night D schooled him and said he was almost as bad as when she first got him.

Have spoken to vet, he took a stool sample to test for protein and blood which came back negative, so prob not ulcers. No lameness that we or instructor can detect under saddle, no back pain. Vet doesn't seem to think there is an issue from seeing him trot up.

Had a long heart to heart with D last night. Should we be expecting to see more improvement in 8 months or is he still likely to find canter hard work, are we in this for a longer haul. I have read that ID types may not mature until 8? Should we get vet to come out again and see him under saddle - thinking hock or SI issues? D is worried that it could be her lack of riding capability - after she broke her ribs she couldn't get him to canter on the right rein at all and her instructor noted she was collapsing to the right and he was a little better when she remedied it. She is also loosing her confidence a little now. D loves him dearly as he is so nice to handle and a very cuddly horse, but is getting to the point where she almost dreads riding him. Some days he will be great, others he will be a butt head.

I feel guilty as my words to her may have pushed her into buying the wrong horse. She wanted a young maxi cob that she could hack all day on and do general RC activities.

Words of wisdom please. Has anyone had similar problems? Should I recommend patience, get vet out again or encourage her to look for a horse she can get out on and enjoy? I did suggest to her if she spotted something that she liked the look of we could consider finding a loan home for Bill (I wouldn't sell him as he could have shivers).

I noticed mince pies are in the shops so a lovely warm one with cream to anyone who got to the end of this essay!
 
No words of wisdom but as you say, IDs are notoriously slow to mature so he has done a lot already IMV.
If your vet can't find anything wrong I would be very inclined to rough him off and turn him away over the winter, maybe bring him back into work very slowly from March time to see if the rest has done him the world of good both physically and mentally. Would that be an option? It might just be he needs more time to strengthen up and they always do that better naturally rather than being worked through it.

PS, on a diet so will pass on the pies thanks.
 
Only way to check for ulcers is to scope them.

Thermal imaging can be useful to see any problem areas.

Have you considered using an animal communicator?
 
Yes - giving him some time off might be an option, although I would worry his hacking might go backwards. She has only got his hacking to this stage by doing so several times a week.

Not tried an animal communicator

I did ask vet about scoping but he said they would only scope if the faecal sample indicated a problem.
 
I think the best thing you can do is be supportive of whatever she wants to do. Tell her that if she's not enjoying the horse and/or is frightened by him that you won't be disappointed and will help her if she wants to sell him and try again to find the right horse, especially if the horse is likely to cause her another serious injury . However, if she is happy with the horse and wants to persevere for herself then yes, encourage her, its always nice to hear from someone else that you're doing well, especially when you're having a struggle as it seems she is.
 
My boy's story is too long to type on a phone but we had a similar problem. Physically fine but appallingly behaved and really struggled with canter. He too was very immature, in his head and his schooling but physically he had more body than he could cope with. An absolute teenager (he was 7 when we got him). To cut a very long story short we were at the end of the line with him until the back lady suggested we send him for professional schooling. We did and he's a different horse. The tantrums about not understanding canter are gone and he's matured beyond recognition in the past 8 months. It's taken a long time and a lot of money but now we have a horse we can achieve something with rather than a tantruming nightmare who injured just about everyone he met.

Maybe it's worth considering if you''ve ruled out physical problems?
 
I'm sorry to hear this :( S deserves some good times.

Have you considered sending him away for schooling? Or just have someone new on his back so they can give an opinion without the emotional judgement coming in- that sounds awful and I'm sorry, it's not meant to! But when you're caring for a horse and building that bond on the ground when you ride them it's hard to decide objectively if the horse is right for you...
 
My husband's big ISH took forever to grow up. He was 8 before he clicked into a balanced horse. He used to find the school really hard work, he was so big with such a long stride it was hard work. With him, we did most of the work on hacks. When you add on some possible issues that yours may have 9possible shivers etc) it could set him back a bit more. Some ID types do fine from the start (Janet George's for example, but they've all had great starts..)

Don't beat yourself up over her decision. You didn't hold a gun to her head, just gave her a slight push. Have a chat with her. Explain that she wouldn't be failing if she decided she wanted something else, but that her riding is not causing this.

Sending him away for schooling may be an idea -especially if its somewhere she could go and have lessons on him afterwards. If not, could she hack out with you and your cob, and just take the stress of "improving and moving forward" away.
 
Thanks for the replies

Bill is only 15.3 but has a huge set of shoulders, is long and has a long neck too so lots to get under control. When he does go forward he does have a long stride.

I don't think D is scared, but undoubtedly she is riding defensively and doubting her ability so it might be that having someone else ride him would help. When she broke her ribs it was having a canter down the stubble, he had been so much improved in his canter out hacking that she had relaxed and got off his back, rather than ride in a defensive position. Typical he spooked at a lion in the hedge and she went out the side door.

Sometimes in the school he can be very quiet. To the point that I had been getting on him once or twice a week for a walk and trot! My new cob is only 4 and good to hack, just waiting for saddler on Friday before we can get out and about. I only hope that Bill will get confidence from Flyn, rather than Bill upsetting Flyn with his antics!
 
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