MontyandZoom
Well-Known Member
I had a great time at the HT on Sunday but Zoomy put in 3 stops at one of the jumps.
I have never had jumping lessons and only really started to jump when I got Zoom (apart from a handfull of times as a teenager).
Now I am getting to the point where I am jumping things that she actually has to jump
She rarely stops, but when she does, I'm not really sure how to handle it 
When she stopped I actually patted her neck, which sounds odd but she seemed genuinely upset and frightened. I rode strongly towards the jump but she didn't want to play. I did eventually get her over it as the horse behind us caught up and I tucked in behind.
When watching the rest of the class, there were lots of stops there and I was watching how the riders reacted. A couple smacked the horse after stopping and a few gave the horse a good few smacks going into the jump the second time.
I don't ride Zoom with a whip, not that I am against them (Monty had a fair few cracks on the arse in his time) but she has never given me cause to smack her. The jump was going away from the collecting ring so I guess if the horse was napping, the smack on the approach would be justified?? But how do you know if a horse is napping, or is just insecure about the jump????? Am I too soft in not telling Zoom off when she stops??
Long and rambling...sorry, I'm just interested in how others deal with refusals.
I have never had jumping lessons and only really started to jump when I got Zoom (apart from a handfull of times as a teenager).
Now I am getting to the point where I am jumping things that she actually has to jump
When she stopped I actually patted her neck, which sounds odd but she seemed genuinely upset and frightened. I rode strongly towards the jump but she didn't want to play. I did eventually get her over it as the horse behind us caught up and I tucked in behind.
When watching the rest of the class, there were lots of stops there and I was watching how the riders reacted. A couple smacked the horse after stopping and a few gave the horse a good few smacks going into the jump the second time.
I don't ride Zoom with a whip, not that I am against them (Monty had a fair few cracks on the arse in his time) but she has never given me cause to smack her. The jump was going away from the collecting ring so I guess if the horse was napping, the smack on the approach would be justified?? But how do you know if a horse is napping, or is just insecure about the jump????? Am I too soft in not telling Zoom off when she stops??
Long and rambling...sorry, I'm just interested in how others deal with refusals.