cobface
Well-Known Member
I need help, before i completley lose my rag.
My OH owns a 3 acre field in a lovely place in shropshire in a really lovely very horsey village right in the centre. Fot the past year i have kept my 3 mares on there, however theres one big problem - his father in law.
Seriously His father has NO respect for anything, hes a real waster, he has 2 houses (that he dosent tend to in a different area of the country) that look like something from that agy how clean is your house thing - enviromental health have been involved as the houses are lying dirty and empty and it terrible condition - am not talking derelict bit of paper off the walls stuff am talking dirty plates etc really messy, mess about 4ft high in every room and just a path going through to the mouldy kitchen. So you get the picture of the type of man this is, someone who dosent know what a razor is or deodorant , and now hes trashing the field!!!!! has even bought 3 horrible 1970s style concrete garages to put up in the field!!!!! i said you need planning, he just said i will put them up till someone tells me to take em down then they can wait another 12 months till i do it!!!!!!!!!! He leaves pig wire around on the floor in big piles and has even left broken glass in the field before, i have to go round tydying it all up.
Idiot father in law has churned up the 3 acre field with pigs and now today a tractor (knows nothing about farming - just a wally with a tractor with no job trying to sell unseasoned wet logs cause he cant be bothered to get off his arse and get a job like everyone else, not content with living with his mother for free and treating her horribly and shes paying all his bills - because a large branch has fallen off the tree in the field and he had to pull a trailer and tractor to get a lousy branch for a measly £20) 20inch tractor ruts through the whole lot and lots and lots of mega holes from the pigs which he knows nothing about. My OH owns half (it was left to OH only but thats another story) and wants nothing to do with it, i just get, well its not your field!!!!!!!!
I have tried to approach FIL before but he just goes on saying its not my field.
However my OH has said i can have 4 stables put up in the summer and replace the fencing which we will pay for, but his dad just wants to put up pouintless concrete sheds and has even mentioned getting cows!!!!! help!! he never used to feed the pigs and never used to leave them water so guess who was left to tend to them?? me!!! i dont want pigs!!!
Am sooooooo mad!!!!!
I dont suppose there is anything i can do as it isnt my field, OH gets mad when i tell him and it causes major arguments.
Anyone have any ideas or brainwaves to stop him carrying on like this before he totally wrecks it?
Can you tell am mad and need to rant?!
I want to report it or something,
dam - shall i cut my losses and find somewhere else for my girlies?? i dont want to move them as all my horsey friends are there and the hacking is great plus theres a great menage down the road to hire?
HELP!
My OH owns a 3 acre field in a lovely place in shropshire in a really lovely very horsey village right in the centre. Fot the past year i have kept my 3 mares on there, however theres one big problem - his father in law.
Seriously His father has NO respect for anything, hes a real waster, he has 2 houses (that he dosent tend to in a different area of the country) that look like something from that agy how clean is your house thing - enviromental health have been involved as the houses are lying dirty and empty and it terrible condition - am not talking derelict bit of paper off the walls stuff am talking dirty plates etc really messy, mess about 4ft high in every room and just a path going through to the mouldy kitchen. So you get the picture of the type of man this is, someone who dosent know what a razor is or deodorant , and now hes trashing the field!!!!! has even bought 3 horrible 1970s style concrete garages to put up in the field!!!!! i said you need planning, he just said i will put them up till someone tells me to take em down then they can wait another 12 months till i do it!!!!!!!!!! He leaves pig wire around on the floor in big piles and has even left broken glass in the field before, i have to go round tydying it all up.
Idiot father in law has churned up the 3 acre field with pigs and now today a tractor (knows nothing about farming - just a wally with a tractor with no job trying to sell unseasoned wet logs cause he cant be bothered to get off his arse and get a job like everyone else, not content with living with his mother for free and treating her horribly and shes paying all his bills - because a large branch has fallen off the tree in the field and he had to pull a trailer and tractor to get a lousy branch for a measly £20) 20inch tractor ruts through the whole lot and lots and lots of mega holes from the pigs which he knows nothing about. My OH owns half (it was left to OH only but thats another story) and wants nothing to do with it, i just get, well its not your field!!!!!!!!
I have tried to approach FIL before but he just goes on saying its not my field.
However my OH has said i can have 4 stables put up in the summer and replace the fencing which we will pay for, but his dad just wants to put up pouintless concrete sheds and has even mentioned getting cows!!!!! help!! he never used to feed the pigs and never used to leave them water so guess who was left to tend to them?? me!!! i dont want pigs!!!
Am sooooooo mad!!!!!
I dont suppose there is anything i can do as it isnt my field, OH gets mad when i tell him and it causes major arguments.
Anyone have any ideas or brainwaves to stop him carrying on like this before he totally wrecks it?
Can you tell am mad and need to rant?!
I want to report it or something,
dam - shall i cut my losses and find somewhere else for my girlies?? i dont want to move them as all my horsey friends are there and the hacking is great plus theres a great menage down the road to hire?
HELP!
