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Orangehorse

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I have decided to retire my horse and not ride him again and I am very sad about it. I dreamt about riding him last night.

He is an old boy, but had been fine all through the summer until about a month ago, then he developed a strange new habit. I consulted the vet and the physio who has been seeing him for years and discussed the symptoms. The vet suggested a chiropractor, but I don't think I will after the physio's input who says it is the symptom of arthritis, and I have also seen him take a lame step sometimes on a sharp turn, so its not right to keep riding him and possibly not safe for either of us either.

The last time I rode him was last Wednesday. I was going on one route, but decided to cut it short and turned right instead of left.

As it happens, that was exactly the same route I took him the very first time I went out on him by myself, and I remember agonising for ages about which way round to do the ride. The longer main road bit first or last? In the end I did it last, so if he was frightened at least we were pointing in the direction of home and it was the next left turn. Of course he was absolutely fine and all my worries were pointless. I suppose he was about 3 and a half, having been broken to ride a couple of months before.

So we did the same route, inspected all the gardens, looked at the flock of goats and was frightened by the pig in the wood - which he must have passed dozens of times. Took no notice of the cars that went past on the main road and arrived home safely. I have been wondering for nearly a year if each time I took him for a ride if it was going to be the last time. Well, it was the last time last week.
 

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I feel your pain, the day I got on mine I was hoping she was going to be ok , but I only hacked her a short way round the fields and knew it was the last time I would ever ride her. It is very sad when you can’t even have a little hack with your friend. Mine had 6 months retired and deteriorated at the beginning of September 2016 and I decided not to put her through the winter. It’s still very fresh in my mind even after all this time.. Hope you get to keep yours for longer than me
 

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Oh my heart goes out to you. Don't be sad for the things you lost, be happy for the things you gained, and learned, the memories you made and the lessons you learned.

Hopefully you'll have a few happy years together still, could you bring him for in hand walks and non riding things together still?

Big hugs.
 

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Please please do not feel down. A wonderful owner who as listened to your horse. I retired my little lass at 10 years old but still have the best of memories grooming bathing, poo picking( that wheel barrow has to go over) and simply sitting the field with a book watching. It’s tough yes but so many more memories to be made xx
 

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I found it incredibly hard when I retired my now 25yo about 3.5yrs ago, his was a ligament injury. As I'd had him since a 5yo, we'd done so much together over the years and riding him was like slipping on the most comfy pair of old shoes, I adored riding him. Took me a long time to get over it! But I'm so very lucky to still have him with me, and that he has enjoyed and thrived in his retirement thus far.

Let yourself be sad, but do enjoy spending the time just chilling with him. I loved how your first ride together also became your last, I hope he enjoys his retirement.
 

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Very sorry to hear you've had to retire him.I hope you've had the opportunity to build lots of memories together to cherish ♥️

It might be too raw for you at the moment to consider but providing he's physically OK to do a little bit of groundwork there is a whole world of non-ridden activities and groundwork ranging from in-hand walks, horse agility, perhaps even some in hand polework, liberty work, just chilling together or massage, mutual grooming or even things like using essential oils together. Hopefully there is something you can find so you still feel you are spending quality time together.

Big hugs to you though tonight.
 

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I am currently waiting to reassess my mare post summer to see what we do next - she’s got mild arthritic changes in hocks and I wasn’t comfortable medicating in summer given risk of lami. We walk lots in hand, she behaves better than my dogs and it’s something I got very used to doing when we rehabbed a suspensory branch injury a few years ago. We both enjoy the wanders and if we can get her comfortable with ridden work this autumn we will carry on our walks.
 
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