Spot of Advice Needed Please

misterjinglejay

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Right, complicated story coming up:

My horse and my friends horse moved to a new yard about 2 months ago; my lad settled in well, but his mate didn't and was intimidated by the 2 existing horses.

This all came to a head on Sunday night.

My freind is away on a course during the week, and left me in charge of the horse. This is a normal thing, and we both know each others horses well.

On Sunday, when my friend was doing the evening shift, her horse was found to have a lot of bites and kick on him, but ate his tea and seemed okay in himself. She separated our lads, from the others for the night. And went off on her course.

He was fine in the morning and ate breakfast, etc.

Monday night: found him down, but calm, couldn't seem/didn't want to get up. He'd only been down for 5 mins max. Rang vet, who came out.

Meanwhile, we'd got him on his feet, and walked him to his stable. He seemed weak behind but otherwise okay - pulse, gums, etc.

Vet examined him v thoroughly IMO, and ruled out concussion, stroke, colic etc. putting it down to a kick on his loin area (there were scrapes there). Gave him a long acting painkiller, said to turn him out with my lad for the night, and he would be a lot better by morning.

This morning, he was down again; we got him up, and he was still wobbly, not interested in food, water or anything much, just walking around.

Rang vet again, who was most reassuring. This was all to be expected, the painkillers were still reaching maximum effectivness.

I didn't contact his owner as she was miles away and couldn't do much from there. Should I have done?

Went up at lunchtime - he was the same - mooching around.

Tonight, found him dead! *****, *****, *****! Had been dead for a while. Checked for vital signs - nothing.

Rang his owners OH, who came up to the yard. Should we have rung the vet for conformation that he was dead (like with people)? The OH asked if we had and to be honest it hadn't crossed my mind - he was defo dead!

Just a spot of advice - did we do all we could? Should we have rung the vet for death conformation?? (I know he'll need to be contacted to sort out post mortum/disposal - but her family are doing that).

If there's any gin left after I've finished with it, you are welcome to it if you've made it this far!
 
Oh goodness what a terrible shock for you and such a horrid thing to happen when your friend is away! I would have done exactly the same things as you, so can't see what you might have done differently?! You poor thing!!
 
How awful for everyone. Does the vet know what might be the cause? Was he in good health otherwise?

It sounds to me like you did all you could.
 
What an awful situation for you to have been in and I feel for you having to deal with something like this. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and you did what you could at the time. Personally, I would have contacted your friend just to put her in the picture but as you say, she was away and there would have been little she could have done. She was involved from the start anyway so she knew there was a problem though so it wasnt out of the blue. Difficult one. It sounds like her horse suffered a stressy type of colic, maybe as a result of moving home. Who knows and if the vets do a post mortem then you should find out. I think you can feel that you did everything right at the time and I wouldnt beat yourself up about whats happened. Its been a shock for all and its upsetting.

Hope you are ok and that she is too. I lost my horse nearly 5 years ago with a broken leg in the field. I didnt find her and got the call at work. Got there as soon as I could but it was too late and she had gone. Just had to cuddle her in the field. Be there for your friend and you will both come through it together x
 
I've known him for a year, and he had always been a 'sensitive' soul - a bit fidgetty, he always worried alot. He was 18, and had a touch of arthritis, but other than that absolutely fine.

Thank you very much for your kind words. My friends parents have driven the four hours to pick her up and bring her home (they obviously didn't want to tell her by phone)

She is going to be devestated, poor love.

Huge hugs to her. Love you L, and M. XXX
 
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