randira
Well-Known Member
Obviously in the ideal world all horses would ride as light as a feather in a plain snaffle and noseband - however that isnt the case.
My 5 yo mare is the boldest, cockiest little horse you have ever seen - she will jump anything / go anywhere but she has next to no respect for bits (and we have tried a few) she will go ok for a while and if she gets bored/ carried away she will just set herself against the bit. We have tried giving taking/ transitions etc, but on a clinic with Graham Fletcher he said she is just taking the p*ss as in she knows how to go nicely but chooses to ignore me when she chooses!!! I have been very firm with my aids and very soft - recently put her in a straight bar pelham (rubber) riding off the top rein only and she was a diamond for a few days - then she lost respect for that too!! My next thought is a hanging cheek waterford. I am sure that she is going to be a fantastic eventer (thats the plan) but I need to keep her between leg and hand otherwise she is going to be a rubbish eventer and there is no way I would be able to hold her together in the dressage in just a snaffle as she naps towards exits and gets all leany and unfocused going towards/away from them. So are some horses naturally 'stronger' in the mouth than others or is it because my mare has rather too much 'personality' ?! Help or at the rate we will be in gags by the age of 6!!!!!!!!!!!!! I need to get her to respect my aids rather than think she can just do her own thing.
My 5 yo mare is the boldest, cockiest little horse you have ever seen - she will jump anything / go anywhere but she has next to no respect for bits (and we have tried a few) she will go ok for a while and if she gets bored/ carried away she will just set herself against the bit. We have tried giving taking/ transitions etc, but on a clinic with Graham Fletcher he said she is just taking the p*ss as in she knows how to go nicely but chooses to ignore me when she chooses!!! I have been very firm with my aids and very soft - recently put her in a straight bar pelham (rubber) riding off the top rein only and she was a diamond for a few days - then she lost respect for that too!! My next thought is a hanging cheek waterford. I am sure that she is going to be a fantastic eventer (thats the plan) but I need to keep her between leg and hand otherwise she is going to be a rubbish eventer and there is no way I would be able to hold her together in the dressage in just a snaffle as she naps towards exits and gets all leany and unfocused going towards/away from them. So are some horses naturally 'stronger' in the mouth than others or is it because my mare has rather too much 'personality' ?! Help or at the rate we will be in gags by the age of 6!!!!!!!!!!!!! I need to get her to respect my aids rather than think she can just do her own thing.