NicandLiv
Well-Known Member
I have had my horse 3 weeks now. Basically her background is she was brought over from Ireland to be a broodmare, she was used to give children rides, she is a bit head shy. The owner I got her from had her for two years, did parelli with her and she hasn't been ridden for a year. I'm not going to bash parelli here and I don't want to offend anyone, but she was fed treats ALL the time, even for unwanted behaviour.
So for the first week I let her settle in, I caught her every morning, tied her up and groomed her (although I couldn't groom her for nearly a week as she isn't used to being tied up and standing still!), then put her back out into the field. I ride once a week in company. Last week I decided to start lunging her, upon when I attempted she kept turning into me and sniffing my hands for treats (that is how she was lunged). I tried again the day after, and held the lunge whip at her shoulder. We had a fair number of kicks, snorting etc when I wouldn't let her turn into me. I tried again two days later, she was brilliant, no snorting, no kicking, no cantering, she was having a nice walk and then a nice controlled trot. I tried again today (again two days later), I had a hard time catching her, then when I got her in the school to be lunged, she cantered off in a circle very uncontrolled, snorting at me and throwing a few kicks. I thought it would be safest really to just do some transitions with her in the field, so I made her stop (so she wasn't stopping of her own accord), and just walked around the school with her giving her voice commands and getting her yielding to me.
Now I know it's going to take a while, and I am not expecting miracles, I am expecting to go one step forward and two steps back until we've built a bond and some trust between both of us.
What I wanted to know is:
a.) Would it be useful if I could have a stricter routine, i.e. one day lunge, one day rest with just grooming and stroking etc.
b.) lunge every day and be more forceful with her when she is being very stroppy (could potentially be dangerous, although I don't think she'd purposely hurt me, she is the type of horse to react if you react and you end up in a big fight)
Someone suggested I feed her Stroppy Mare in her feed every morning and see how it goes. (Alongside still lunging etc and working through it)
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
So for the first week I let her settle in, I caught her every morning, tied her up and groomed her (although I couldn't groom her for nearly a week as she isn't used to being tied up and standing still!), then put her back out into the field. I ride once a week in company. Last week I decided to start lunging her, upon when I attempted she kept turning into me and sniffing my hands for treats (that is how she was lunged). I tried again the day after, and held the lunge whip at her shoulder. We had a fair number of kicks, snorting etc when I wouldn't let her turn into me. I tried again two days later, she was brilliant, no snorting, no kicking, no cantering, she was having a nice walk and then a nice controlled trot. I tried again today (again two days later), I had a hard time catching her, then when I got her in the school to be lunged, she cantered off in a circle very uncontrolled, snorting at me and throwing a few kicks. I thought it would be safest really to just do some transitions with her in the field, so I made her stop (so she wasn't stopping of her own accord), and just walked around the school with her giving her voice commands and getting her yielding to me.
Now I know it's going to take a while, and I am not expecting miracles, I am expecting to go one step forward and two steps back until we've built a bond and some trust between both of us.
What I wanted to know is:
a.) Would it be useful if I could have a stricter routine, i.e. one day lunge, one day rest with just grooming and stroking etc.
b.) lunge every day and be more forceful with her when she is being very stroppy (could potentially be dangerous, although I don't think she'd purposely hurt me, she is the type of horse to react if you react and you end up in a big fight)
Someone suggested I feed her Stroppy Mare in her feed every morning and see how it goes. (Alongside still lunging etc and working through it)
Any advice is greatly appreciated.