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Einstein would be proud of my Insanity...
no sign of pain has been shown,.
You have to be joking.
I can't decide if you are a troll or you just don't know enough and are not open to advice enough to own a horse.
SEND IT BACK.
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no sign of pain has been shown,.
A 'mounting issue ' can itself be a sign of pain.was it my post you read or what other people had written, no sign of pain has been shown, the ‘horse whisper’ was brought in to help with mounting issue. If there was signs of pain then a vet would be involved. There hasn’t.
I expect you guys are going to rip me a new one for this opinion, which I know myself is impractical and stupid but here goes... this horse appears to be in pain, if she sends it back, what will the dealer do, sell it again, to someone else who may get really hurt and then pass it on again. Maybe nobody will ever look into the "why" behind this, and that doesn't seem right. I mean, it may be the horse is just a wrong one, but there's very few that are truly like that.
I couldn't sell on/give back a horse I'd had for a period of time and I knew to have pain related ridden issues knowing that it is likely to be sold on again to another unsuspecting buyer, but that's me. Trust me I know what it is to buy a horse and have it go wrong quickly, it stinks, but I think it's not right to pass him on. This is the problem with the leisure horse market, so many people dumping their broken horses on dealers (who may or may not know). If everyone took responsibility for their broken horses maybe a lot less of them would end up being passed around so much.
You raise some good points Winters, Just hope whoever buys him next knows what they’re doing so they don’t get hurtNot a stupid opinion at all, and if I was in OPs position I would do exactly as you suggest, fix the horse if he could be fixed, and if not he would not leave my hands alive. I would say however that this does require funds, which I have no idea if OP has available, and also a certain amount of knowledge of how to approach such problems. OP is convinced that the horse does not show signs of pain, and in many months of the horse demonstrating behaviour which would indicate this, has not called a vet. A simple google search of any of the behaviours mentioned would highlight pain as a likely cause. Therefore in my opinion the best for both horse and owner is that he is returned, and hopefully he will have better luck next time. Sad for all parties, especially the poor horse, but I do not believe that staying with the current owner is in the best interests of the animal.
Nope I am a complete sucker for animals and would do the same.I expect you guys are going to rip me a new one for this opinion, which I know myself is impractical and stupid but here goes... this horse appears to be in pain, if she sends it back, what will the dealer do, sell it again, to someone else who may get really hurt and then pass it on again. Maybe nobody will ever look into the "why" behind this, and that doesn't seem right. I mean, it may be the horse is just a wrong one, but there's very few that are truly like that.
I couldn't sell on/give back a horse I'd had for a period of time and I knew to have pain related ridden issues knowing that it is likely to be sold on again to another unsuspecting buyer, but that's me. Trust me I know what it is to buy a horse and have it go wrong quickly, it stinks, but I think it's not right to pass him on. This is the problem with the leisure horse market, so many people dumping their broken horses on dealers (who may or may not know). If everyone took responsibility for their broken horses maybe a lot less of them would end up being passed around so much.
Not a stupid opinion at all, and if I was in OPs position I would do exactly as you suggest, fix the horse if he could be fixed, and if not he would not leave my hands alive. I would say however that this does require funds, which I have no idea if OP has available, and also a certain amount of knowledge of how to approach such problems. OP is convinced that the horse does not show signs of pain, and in many months of the horse demonstrating behaviour which would indicate this, has not called a vet. A simple google search of any of the behaviours mentioned would highlight pain as a likely cause. Therefore in my opinion the best for both horse and owner is that he is returned, and hopefully he will have better luck next time. Sad for all parties, especially the poor horse, but I do not believe that staying with the current owner is in the best interests of the animal.
I expect you guys are going to rip me a new one for this opinion, which I know myself is impractical and stupid but here goes... this horse appears to be in pain, if she sends it back, what will the dealer do, sell it again, to someone else who may get really hurt and then pass it on again. Maybe nobody will ever look into the "why" behind this, and that doesn't seem right. I mean, it may be the horse is just a wrong one, but there's very few that are truly like that.
I couldn't sell on/give back a horse I'd had for a period of time and I knew to have pain related ridden issues knowing that it is likely to be sold on again to another unsuspecting buyer, but that's me. Trust me I know what it is to buy a horse and have it go wrong quickly, it stinks, but I think it's not right to pass him on. This is the problem with the leisure horse market, so many people dumping their broken horses on dealers (who may or may not know). If everyone took responsibility for their broken horses maybe a lot less of them would end up being passed around so much.
was it my post you read or what other people had written, no sign of pain has been shown, the ‘horse whisper’ was brought in to help with mounting issue. If there was signs of pain then a vet would be involved. There hasn’t.
I would send the horse back. As for the dealer promising to take him back in one month, why the wait?
Call me suspicious but I don't trust the dealer.
I take the view on the day they arrive thats that for good or bad they are with me and it’s my issue .
I also feel sorry for the purchaser. But I feel 100% more sorry for the horse.I feel very sorry for the purchaser of this horse who has been the unfortunate victim of an unscrupulous bottom end horse dealer.
I very much hope that she takes greater precautions when she purchases her next horse.
maybe they don’t have the space. Sales livery/schooling livery due to leave in a month etc