Jasmine2023
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I promise to update you all.
Sally lives near me, she does travel to clients around West Yorkshire fairly regularly. Sorry I don't know costsI think a couple of us have recommended Sally Mitchell, she is in West Yorkshire.
I also recommend Joe Midgely (recommended by someone else, although he historically has been more difficult to get to private clients where there isn't a clinic situation. He is the person who rode mine every week for ages when I wasn't at my most resourceful, but he is not as local to you as Sally would be. He was, however local to me, and fitted mine in before and after clinics on his way to or from home. I would have been happy for Sally to have ridden mine if she had been local.
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OP's had some great advice, and some good contacts to investigate.
Can I suggest, at this point, that we now all wish her well and wait for an update in a couple of weeks time.
Thank you xx. Ozzy may be gone but he certainly hasn't been forgotten.I agree - excellent suggestion.
Jasmine absolutely loves her animals and always puts them first. She quickly bonded with Charlie and he does seem like a lovely big lad.
She's also been wonderful about keeping in touch re. Ozzy.
I think that, with the right people around her, this could work out very well.
Sadly I can't do any other than full livery, I have a zoo at home that takes up a lot of my timeSo sorry to hear your having a crap time Jasmine. There's plenty advice here by knowledgeable people to help you I'm sure.
Take everything slow, there's no need to rush youself or Charlie, take up the kind offer (if you deem them suitable) to ride and assess him. Also, I know you say there are no other yards around BUT thay may not be the case speak to kind rider/ask on local fb groups (they can be a god send, only reason I have FB really). Dosent seem like current yard is for you, even if you like the people. Wpuld you take assisted livery, drop in price to then pay for a freelance rider weekly instead of full livery?
Get all the routine checks done, teeth, chiropractor, farrier, saddlefitter. Space it out if your needing to money wise. Put riding to one side if your suspect of any goings on with those things. Right now Charlie will be happy being looked after, warm and fed. Gives you time to watch you tube, getting some muscle building/ rider ready excersises in. Can't do any harm, some of them are fab!
Also when you mentioned the instructor was going to help you and Charlie with ' groundwork' what did that mean? I'm hoping it's teaching you to lunge, long rein (full lunge kit on, working Charlie from behind too).
Honestly think, with a wee bit of support, given the right contacts, right yard - you could do this.
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Not sure to be honest never asked.Can Charlie go on 24/7 turnout where you are at all?
You’ve mentioned cost - it’s worth doing the maths on what you pay for Full livery + Lessons !
Schooling livery starts at 200pw round us in North Yorkshire
That can include lessons on the horse instead of them riding depending on the person.
Sounds very positive, well done.A quick update. With the riding school instructor we did some lunging and he walked trotted and cantered fine. He was really good. I had a little go with the lunge myself too for the first time. I then got on him for 10 mins and walked but stood up and down as we we walked and he certainly wasn't bothered by me moving up and down. I have a lady coming to check his saddle on Thursday afternoon. Baby steps but I am working on it.
Thanks.Sounds very positive, well done.
A quick update. With the riding school instructor we did some lunging and he walked trotted and cantered fine. He was really good. I had a little go with the lunge myself too for the first time. I then got on him for 10 mins and walked but stood up and down as we we walked and he certainly wasn't bothered by me moving up and down. I have a lady coming to check his saddle on Thursday afternoon. Baby steps but I am working on it.
It doesn't bother me if it feels like I am having to do basic things again I am quite happy to do what's needed. Feeling more confident about things now. He was such a good boy yesterday even when this numpty was trying to lunge him for the first timepositive update - you may feel like a child learning to ride, but this is how we get the babies (horses) used to the feel of a rising trot and movement in the saddle when we are backing them.
I most definitely amYou are obviously putting Charlie first and thinking all this through and listening to experienced people on here. You are certainly giving both of you the best shot.xx
I most definitely am.
I had someone come out to ride him today and trot him and he was perfect. So it's just me not him. She did say he is very bouncy which I knew so this may have contributed to the issue with me trotting him. So I need to work on getting used to that and when I feel ready I will try trotting him again but probably on the lunge. He was such a good boy, nice and calm for her. Feeling so much more positive now.
I most definitely am.
I had someone come out to ride him today and trot him and he was perfect. So it's just me not him. She did say he is very bouncy which I knew so this may have contributed to the issue with me trotting him. So I need to work on getting used to that and when I feel ready I will try trotting him again but probably on the lunge. He was such a good boy, nice and calm for her. Feeling so much more positive now.
I really am not having the problems you have had with Ozzy though. I think Charlie is just a bit green but his general temperament is brilliant, you can do pretty much everything with him and he doesn't care. He's not keen on having his face brushed but he just turns his face away there is no nastiness or anything with it. Some of the issues with the trotting are obviously with me I can't blame him at all as he trots on the lunge and with an experienced rider.This is such fantastic news! Charlie is a real gem - sweet-natured cobs are worth their weight in gold!
With time and work/support, he will become the sort of horse that will really look after you out on rides.
It's been a positive day for Ozzy too - he allowed me to trim his beard with the clippers! And this was with him standing in the field on the other side of the gate, no headcollar...he was happy for me to use the clippers and didn't bat an eyelid. Now if he would let us do the same thing with his legs....!
It's a great feeling when we make progress with our horses. I know things are a bit up and down with Ozzy, and possibly with Charlie too, but when something clicks there's nothing quite like it.
I really am not having the problems you have had with Ozzy though. I think Charlie is just a bit green but his general temperament is brilliant, you can do pretty much everything with him and he doesn't care. He's not keen on having his face brushed but he just turns his face away there is no nastiness or anything with it. Some of the issues with the trotting are obviously with me I can't blame him at all as he trots on the lunge and with an experienced rider.
I am glad you had a win with Ozzy. It really does make you feel it's all worthwhile doesn't it.
Ozzy is learning to be more trusting but I honestly think he was so traumatised by the whole auction thing and especially what happened with the dealer, he was just incredibly wary of people
I'm sure that you will make lots of progress with Charlie now!
Jasmine you didnt let Ozzie down. He was, in many way lucky enough to land with someone who was able to admit that they were out of their depth and not too proud to allow someone else to take over the reins. Plenty out there would not have had the humility to do that.
Thank you. I have never been one to over horse themselves and I am quite happy to be honest about my riding abilities. What's the point you soon get caught out.Jasmine you didnt let Ozzie down. He was, in many way lucky enough to land with someone who was able to admit that they were out of their depth and not too proud to allow someone else to take over the reins. Plenty out there would not have had the humility to do that.
Thank you for your kind words. I would indeed go without if needed so my pets get everything they need.I was just about to say the same thing! There is no way that Ozzy was let down by Jasmine - she put him first, just like she does with all her animals.
By the time he arrived at Jasmine's yard, the damage had already been done. Ozzy led a very sheltered life for 8 years and then had a few very bad experiences, which affected him before he got to Jasmine. And she 100% did the right thing - we do love him (even though he drives us to distraction at times!)