Trying to find pony - Not so honest owners

Williampony

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So recently I've been to see a few ponies to replace my boy who I bought at 16 last year and has a ruptured ligament that will never fully heal. I've been looking for about a 6 weeks and have spent the last 5 weekends going to see various different types of ponies. I'm quite picky so it took me a while to find some candidates on the internet websites/through word of mouth before I even went to see any. The first one I saw was a really sweet pony that had done a bit of everything - PC, eventing, SJ, Dressage etc. It didn't put a hoof wrong but I just didn't seem to 'click' with it which was a shame.The next one I saw was not cheap, and seemed really sweet again. I went to see this one twice and discovered he got a little excited when jumping, which I quite liked. I was told that he was never silly and always came back to you. Things seemed to be going really well until I was contacted by someone I knew saying they'd seen this pony buck so much at a show that its rider came off. I was alarmed and contacted the owner to see if the person had made a mistake. Instead of denying that it was the same pony, the owner replied saying that the rider had 'lost her balance'. I found this hard to believe and swiftly started my search again.
Last weekend we went to see some ponies at a dealers. I was a bit cautious as I know dealers can sometimes get a pony in, do literally no work on it, and then sell it for three times as much. I went anyway because a mutual friend knew the person who was selling the ponies. We were told on the phone that the dun pony was better and was more of a pc pony, but when we arrived we were soon told that that was not the case and the dun had been bought back by the dealer and they had discovered it had started to buck. This put me off as we had traveled a fairly long way to get to the place to see this dun pony. Anyway, we were told some odd story about the dun pony which didn't really ring true so I rode the grey pony first. The pony had apparently been jumping 1m25 in Ireland and would be brilliant to affiliate in eventing. After seeing its flatwork, I was skeptical to say the least. Its head was everywhere and it seemed in pain to be honest. When I mounted the pony, it seemed calm and very relaxed and I let it on a loose reign. However, as soon as I gathered my reigns, its head perked up and started swinging around again. The first trot was very relaxed and I felt confident even though I hadn't ridden for a while, the second trot was much more energetic and not relaxed at all. I asked her to canter and she obliged, thrusting into a very 'forward' canter. I had to check my breathing to stay relaxed as the pony got faster and faster whilst she stood in the middle of the arena on her phone completely ignoring the situation. The lady spent the next ten minutes helping me to ask for trot after canter. If you gave a half halt to the pony, it just pulled more and went faster, so all you could do was stay relaxed and hope that it would decide to slow down. She told me to go on a circle which I did, but then she told me to stop pulling on my inside reign. I was not pulling on my inside reign, I was opening my hand to guide the pony. I did as she said and the pony carried on going large as I expected. Of course this was my fault! Next was jumping, which I could only trot because I was scared the pony would take off down the arena again. After that ordeal, I dismounted and she walked out the dun pony.
It was looking everywhere and spooking at everything. The lady didn't do ANY warming up and just took off at a canter and attempted to jump a cross pole. The pony refused. She carried on down the arena 'hopping' with its back legs (not exactly 'bucking' as she described it). To be fair the next jump was a decent size spread which the pony did jump, after a sore beating in the ribs. She new the pony had performed badly but still had the nerve to tell me to get on the pony. I replied saying 'I'm not sure I really want to ride her in case she bucks'. I was trying to avoid saying the real reason which was 'that pony looks like an arse'. The lady replied saying that she asked me whether I wanted to ride the pony before in case it bucked and I had replied that I did. The thing was, she hadn't asked me anything. I was fairly miffed by this comment as it wasn't my fault that the pony was rubbish!
We left fairly swiftly after this - it was a terrible experience which I wish never happens again.
A warning to anyone trying to sell a horse:
Don't put lies in the advert and then forget what you put in it when someone comes to look at the pony.
Don't tell someone a rubbish fairytale story about the pony that no one will believe.
Don't stand in the middle of the arena on the phone whilst your horse/pony tanks off with the rider.
And lastly, as a dealer it always has a good effect on a potential buyer if you act professional. Have everything sorted before they come and don't spend an hour showing pictures of the pony- it's not just your own time your wasting!
I want to ask everyone on this forum their bad experiences when going to look at a horse/pony. It would be nice to know that I'm not the only one that people try to do one over on!:)
 
I feel your frustration, whilst horse searching at first seems exciting it soon becomes very annoying, although it is far better to discover these traits during a viewing rather than a few weeks down the line. I once travelled 7 hours (no joke) to see a 'clean limbed eventer' who turned out to have splints and was hopping lame - even before I'd sat on it. Another 4 hour trek to see a showjumper who would 'learn to pick her feet up eventually' (crashed through every single fence we jumped). Another time I asked the lady to ride the horse first so I could see how it went, naturally, and the response was 'oh no I wouldn't dare ride her myself, hasn't been sat on in 2 years'. So you're not alone in your terrible experience.
I have endless stories of exaggerations and lies from trying horses, some sellers are pretty ruthless. What it did teach me however was when selling my own mare last year to be as completely and brutally honest as possible to save wasting everybody's time, which is the best option as it worked out perfectly.
I hope you have a better experience soon and find what you're looking for, it's a 'kiss a few frogs before you find your prince' type thing! :)
 
I travelled three hours journey to see a horse; only to be told when I got there, "oh, we didn't know you wanted it for riding (they DID) ........ it's not done any of that only been broken to harness" :(

Friend went to see a "perfect Pony Club pony". She wisely insisted that it be seen under saddle FIRST before her daughter got up on it. So seller's daughter got up on it; it bucked, farted and hooned all round the arena. Owner says "oh its never done that before". Friend later found out from someone else who'd gone to see it that it had done exactly the same thing on another separate occasion!!!

Am sure there will be lots more horror stories coming from people...............
 
When I was looking:

Horse 1 - suitable for novice - yes, my Dad rides it. Up to weight - yes, my Dad rides I. When I got there - skinny TB that would not have carried 10 stone - I am a bit more than that! The bridle had to be undone to tack it up as it was headshy, didn't mention that - and they had had it for 2 years, so surely you would have cured this? Didn't even get on as it wouldn't be fair.

Horse 2 - at a dealer - wanted something around 10 years old, got shown a sweet little cob that was 5. The chap hopped on it bareback with a halter then proceeded to walk, trot and canter it up the ROAD! there was a school! He looked a bit shocked when I asked for tack, LOL. Anyway, it was very sweet - but to young.

Horse 3 - nice cob, but owner had heard that cobs were getting popular so hiked up the price from £4K to £7K when she heard I was interested.

Horse 4 - reared up with my sister, smashing her in the face and splitting her lip, needing 4 stitches. We had asked if it was OK for a novice - really stressed the novice bit, girl said yes her Granny rode it, she forgot to mention that her granny used to event professionally!!

Horse 5 - I knew from the moment I saw his face that he was absolutely coming home with me - and we have been together nearly 14 years - definitely my soul-mate, my perfect partner and friend.
 
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