What a diffrence three years makes.

LauraWheeler

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In the summer of 2009 I desided Lucy was getting older and may need to slow down in afew years time. I started looking for a youngster to bring on. That way once Lucy was ready to retire they would be ready to take over. :) I realy realy wanted a conni but even the young ones were out of my price range. Especialy as I desided after all I had been through with Lucy I wanted something without behavoural or health issues.
In late 2009 Lucy started showing strange symptoms and no one could work out what was wrong with her. The search for a pony haulted. Then on Friday 13th November I got the devistating diagnosis that Lucy had a very very rare illness and was given a less than 50% chance of making it passed xmas. :(
Devistated was not the word for how I felt the bottom fell out my world. I was no longer intrested in looking for another pony but everyone around me knew I needed another one before Lucy went or I was likely to just give up.
My boss found an ad on a website for a 13.2hh new forest pony. The photo was awful and the description even worse but he was cheap. I wasn't intrested and barely looked at the ad but justto keep her quiet I agreed to go and look.
Well when we arrived we didn't find a 13.2hh pony. We found the saddest looking 12.2hhish living in someones back garden. :(
The owner explained to us how she had "rescued" him from his last owner. How he used to buck all the time, but she had sorted all that out now. We asked why she was getting rid of him and she said she didn't want to ride anymore :confused: I caught him in from her garden. The owner refused to ride him when we asked her to :rolleyes: So I ran him up and down the drive afew times then tacked him up and got on. I rode him round the wood next to the house. He was sooooooooooooo lazy. I could barely get him to walk. I think this was due to him being doped. (You can tell when a gelding has been doped ;) ) When I got back we stood chatting to the owner who again told us how she rescued him paying £1500 for just him (yet after sorting all his problems she was selling him for £550 inclu tack and rugs :confused: ), She said she had sorted him useing Parelli and who ever bought him would have to carry this on, I looked at his passport, he was 8 and had had atleast 6 owners already, he had been a stallion till he was 7 and this owner had only owned him for 6 months, the owner before her had only had him for 5 :eek: It broke my heart and I wanted to put him in the boot of the car and take him home there and then. My boss said we would think about it and get back to the owner, but I cried on the way home. So when we got back she phoned the owner and said we would pick him up in afew days.
When we went to pick him up the owner let us have the tack, except for the stirrop leathers and irons, As she knew these fitted her (Odd for someone who is apparently giving up ;) ) We loaded Herbie up and took him home.
I was relieved to get him out of there but once we got him home the extent of his problems became clear.
He wouldn't load in a horsebox or trailer, When he was groomed he would bite and kick, When you tried to lunge him he would come in and attack you, If you tried to ride him he would buck, rear, leap and spin so you would get off, He couldn't live with other horses as he would just attack them, He would live with a mare if she was in season and he would spend the whole time mounting her.
None could belive what I had bought and everyone sugested I get rid ASAP.
I started working on lunging. To begin with it took over an hour to get one circle of trot on one rein. I battled on and kept trying. Slowly he was improving. One day there was a jump up in the school so I desided to put him over it. He loved it. He wasn't realy shore how to do it but I had atlast found something he seemed to want to do. Lunging was getting easyer all the time and even grooming him was becoming alittle less risky. So I desided to try riding him out. I would get on him in the drive and he would refuse to move. I tried everything to make him go but it all just resulted in him rearing, bucking, leaping and spinning. I even tried riding him out in company but he didn't care if the other horse dissapeared into the sunset he still refused to move. The only way I could get him to go was to get off and drag him up the road. Get back on and try to get him to move. If he still wouldn't go I had to get off him again and drag him some more. Things slowly started getting better when tragedy struck and I lost my beloved Lucy to the illness :( I couldn't believe she was gone and my whole life came to a stop. I couldn't bare to look at Herbie and he was left in the field for about a month. He wasn't my Lucy, I just wanted her back. :(
Then one day a "friend" told me to just take Herbie to beaulie road and hope the meat man bought him. He was never going to be any good. I was very upset by this comment and ran down the field to see Herbie. I stood at the gate looking at him. I desided to get himin and give him a brush. While I brushed him I was thinking about Lucy and started crying. Instead of trying to bite and kick me Herbie was licking my face. Asif he was trying to lick the tears away. In that moment I vowed to Herbie that we would show them egsactly how usless he was. I worked on all his issues and slowly he got better and better.
I took him to a show and did two inhand classes. We came home with a 5th and 2nd place :D At our second show we came 1st and 2nd :D :D Lunging was now easy and riding was getting better and better all the time. My plan was to do ridden showing with him so I took him to a dreaage show to see how he was ridden at a show. He was realy good and I was shocked when they announced the results and we had come 2nd :eek: :D I took him to another one and he won that one :D We have also done inhand at two county shows. We weren't placed but he behaved like a star and had lots of admireres and this summer we have even been showjumping afew times getting a 3rd and 2nd place. Not bad for an unridable pony and a terrified rider ;) :p :D
And last month we did our first Prelim dressage test, The first time Herbs had been in an indoor school and we got 59%
I'm so proud of my little pony. I'm so glad I didn't give up on him. I knew he could be a lovely chap if someone gave him the time to trust them. I hope he knows he's safe now and he's stuck with me forever. It's been such a journey over the last three years but I can't wait to see what the future holds for us. :D

wow thats a momoth post thankyou if you read to the end and thankyou to all those on here who have supported me over the last three years. It's been one hell of a ride but so worth it in the end. xx
Here is a little video with pics and clips from the last three years. Hope you enjoy. :D

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OP, you are one of my favourite HHOers for all you do for your ponies and also because you sent me a beautiful poem when I lost Jamin which helped so much and I cherish to this day.

Herbbie is so lucky to have found you. May you enjoy each other for many more years to come. Well done :)
 
What a cheeky monkey, he looks naughty but nice type pony but once you get his trust he will do anything for you. We had one of those and I do miss him.

I loved the bit where he lays down on the lunge, he soooo knows what he's doing :p
 
Thankyou for all the lovely comments guys :D Can't quite believe it's been three years. It doesn't seem that long, though sometimes it feels like forever ;) :p :D

picolenicole and wallykissmas LOL It's better than him attacking me though like when he first came. He's such a charector now he always makes me laugh.

Sam_1985 We will. we're going to show them all what a star he truly is :D

SmartieBean09 Thankyou. :o

Hippona glad you liked it. :D

canteron Thats so true. I went through so much with Lucy but she ended up my pony of a lifetime. Herbs is looking to be heading the same way. Think I'm going to be lucky and have two ponys of a lifetime :D

pardalis sorry :o
 
I love him!

Lucy and Herbie were both the luckiest ponies in the world when they found you. If only more people had your attitude and worked to make their relationships with their horses so good.

Just shows those people who said they would never be any good and you should get rid, how things can change when someone is prepared to put the time and effort in :)
 
I can't believe it has been three years already! I'm another member of the "Horrid" Herbie fan club. He's such a character and you have done so well with him, Laura. I hope things keep going in the right direction for you and your lovely boys.
 
Laura I must stop reading your threads at work as they always have me in tears!

Thanks for sharing your stories with us, they are inspiring (I made the thread on 'tell me your new horse started out bad turned out good stories') and was very motivated by your tales of Lucy & Herbie. In my next life I want to come back as one of your horses :)
 
ahhh, new forest ponies really are the best :D

as soon as you click with them they'll do anything for you no matter what. It took a good few years to click with my new forest but now he does anything and everything for me.

I think it was you I was speaking to the other week about doing my first prelim on my forester? I did a novice instead and came 2nd against big bouncy warmbloods! :D Theyre the best ponies ever :D

Dont want to intrude on your post but this is my beast playing dressage...
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Another forum member calls them hampshire warmbloods :D Think I see a clique coming along...
 
Lauren that has reduced me to tears, his a great pony you are obviously made for each other, love the music xx

Just wanted to add my first horse was TB x new forest she was a lovely horse could be a cow at times though, my friends daughter also has a new forest and his also lovely and she wins loads with him she is only 9.
 
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sychnant thankyou. I'm lucky to they both came into my life when I needed them most. :)

Dollysox doesn't seem like three years does it. I keep having to work it out as I can't believe it either :o

katehemyock Thankyou :o Sorry to make you cry at work :o Hope things are going well with your horse :)

rachaelstar Your forester is stunning :D They are miles better than dumbbloods anyday of the week ;) :p :D Well done at your dressage to. Whens your next one?

Pinkvboots thankyou. foresters realy are fab. I never realy thought of having one before but now I have two :p :D :D
 
What a fab post to read. Well done both of you but mostly well done to you for not giving up on him and believing in what he could be. I had a new forest years ago and it was one of the best ponies ever. He used to come and lay down beside us in our back garden when we were sunbathing (those were the days when we had sun in summer!). Loved him to bits.
 
What a lovely post and good on you for sticking with him. He reminds me of an elderly pony I have on loan. No one managed to be able to ride him so I have taken him on as a companion. He probably just needed someone like you to bring him on.
 
Merlin11 thankyou. :) Your boy is lucky to have found you to take him on.

Equilibrium Ireland thankyou :D I think he's rather stunning but then again i'm probably biast ;) :p :D
 
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