Clarebear*
Well-Known Member
in the 3.5 tonne lorry my horse, leans to balance himself? he doesn't fall over or do anything dramatic, he simply leans round corners. Does this make him a bad traveller? my friend who drives the lorry says, hes a very bad traveller, and it scares her when he leans. Personally i wouldn't class this as a horse that travels badly?
I can't tell whether she uses this as an excuse for her not wanting me to take my horse so i can help her when shes competing? because its only sometimes she says it! 95% of the time she asks do you want to go here on sunday? etc.. and we travelled down to a week long show, 6 and a half hours away last summer? no problems there..
I admit i am sounding like i have spat my dummy out here, and i don't expect lifts from her, but it frustrates me when she says she will take me places, then 2 days before changes her mind, even though shes still going... and expects me to come and groom for her! and thats my wasted entry fees and me letting the team down if its a rc comp! grr hate moaning about her as she is my friend but its as equally frustrating as i know i would never ever treat my friends in this way!
opinions please! is it a horse issue or people
I can't tell whether she uses this as an excuse for her not wanting me to take my horse so i can help her when shes competing? because its only sometimes she says it! 95% of the time she asks do you want to go here on sunday? etc.. and we travelled down to a week long show, 6 and a half hours away last summer? no problems there..
I admit i am sounding like i have spat my dummy out here, and i don't expect lifts from her, but it frustrates me when she says she will take me places, then 2 days before changes her mind, even though shes still going... and expects me to come and groom for her! and thats my wasted entry fees and me letting the team down if its a rc comp! grr hate moaning about her as she is my friend but its as equally frustrating as i know i would never ever treat my friends in this way!
opinions please! is it a horse issue or people