I’m the Estate Manager for an UHNW Family. The pay is decent, but I’m also funding a mortgage, a stay-at-home wife, two sets of twins and a toddler, as well as fertility treatment every year or two when the smallest gains some independence and I inevitably end up broody. 🤣 I think that I could just about keep a horse on full livery if I gave up all of the lovely things that I like to buy, but it would require a great deal of family sacrifice and I’m not sure that I’m ready to ask that of them yet. And we would probably have to stop having babies.
Instead I ride two/three times a week at a riding school that is attached to a Connemara stud, and the owner is the only person who has referred to me as a ‘girl’ in the past ten years. I’m enjoying getting a feel for what sort of rider I am and the type of horse that suits me in a fairly controlled, but also highly personalised, environment. I do plan to buy a horse eventually, perhaps even next year as we’ve run out of frozen embryos, but I want to be a little more established as an equestrienne first and perhaps for the children to either feel ready to join in or less eager for me to spend every moment that I’m not working escorting them about the place on another ‘adventure’ - I am told that comes as they grow!
I grew up in an unhorsy family where riding was just something that girls did - like ballet, gymnastics, elocution, chamber choir, fencing and chess. I think they were a little surprised by my passion! I never did get a pony, though I did own a horse for a time, briefly and unsuccessfully, as a young adult after my grandparents wrote me a cheque to buy a car. 🤣