What to do when things go bad....

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Today been one those very bad days i have found out that....

1. YO seriously ill will cancer

2. Little brats on yard went and hid everyones shovels yesterday and couldnt be bothered to go and find them

3. One kid is hitting all horses with stick to move them to get her horse out the yard

4. Have a lady trying to take over yard who even if you are there believes she can bring in horse for you when you just told the daughter that your horse didnt need bringing in yet as was only 3 in afternoon

5. Bossy lady had big mothers metting with all the other b****** about fact i had gone and put Buddy back in field

6. Because me and other lady dont like what bossy lady trying to do and wont buy rugs of her she has now took away turn out and turn in service which YO was meant to be doing. Which doesnt make sense as it isnt even her who ends up turning horses out


Very annoyed! What shall i do? I dont want to move yard has have become great friends with one family and we both help each other out alot. But for a DIY yard i dont want to be told what to do. Also with now turning bud out and in what shall i do if have to go up there early only to find someone else has turned him out?
 
really sh!t about YO but nothing you can do only be suportive.

Have serious words with the brats parents, and prob with the lil shits to

Tell the girl whos hitting others horses that if you see her near yours you'll hit her with a much bigger stick, much much harder! Have words with the parents.

tell lady who is trying to take over the yard, that while others may value her opinions, you don't need then as you are an experienced horsewoman and know what is best for you horse, and even if she doesn't argee, Budy is your horse.

If you want to put Budy back in th efield, you can, you pay you livery fees and you are his owner!

If turn out and in is no longer available, go up every morning and night and ask that noone does turn out or in for you as you will be there to do it yourself. Make sure this is reflected in your livery fees/rent, if you have an probs, speak to YO, she maybeb ill but if unable to run the business she should think about employing a yard manager
 
And breathe Amy!!!!!!!!! I agree with Racing Gal, plus could you not offer to do the turn in/out service for the YO whilst you are looking for a job, it might be beneficial to you both? Plus when you get Topsy Turvey, Daisy mae & Romeo I would not want others messing with them!
 
I agree with sally!! If YO is strugling to cope it would be ideal for you to help out on the yard, you'd be earning some extra cash until you can find a full time job and it would help YO out to!
 
Sound like without YO the kids (and adults in some cases) are running riot and the YO (if possible) needs to appoint someone vaguely responsible to help restore order!! Could you put yourself forward and offer to do it?
 
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