What to do??

toomanyhorses26

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I have had my horse on loan from my old riding instructor for aout 8 years and have been pretty much allowed to get on with it as she moved about an hours drive away. She has always been v supportive, pays more than her fair share and is always there if I am having a crisis!!! Recently though she has moved back to the area and is back teaching at the yard again. she has started to get v involved with him again eg changing his fields, cleaned my stable out ,changing the type of work he is doing and its bugging me a bit. She hasn't said anything concrete to me but I get the feeling that she would like him back in some way. Really not sure whether to bring it up or see how the next few weeks go as I am not sure I would be happy sharing(we have quite different styles when it comes to the horses!!!) and not sure if I could stomach seeing someone else looking after him. I know he is her horse at the end of the day but I also have my other horse stabled at the same yard. Any advice would be welcome as I have always been the one to end loan agreements so it's a bit of a new oneon me thanks
 
I wouldnt like it either and would need to know either way.
Maybe shes just trying to be helpful and feels awkward or funny doing nothing as she is now often on the same yard. I think I would have to ask her to put my mind at rest.
 
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