What would you do with this horse?

Sunny08

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In July I brought an 11yr WB beautiful mare to school up with an intention of selling her. During the time I had her I discovered she had mild bone spavin. Now this doesn't really bother her most the time but I would be afraid of her re-entering the 'selling' market as I am quite sure there would be people who would buy her cheaply and sell her on without disclosing her condition as you could cover it if she wasn't vetted. So anyway I have made her a promise I will never sell.
She is the perfect mare, easy to handle, perfect hack, safe as houses but still has a lot of get up and go. Currently with having my baby I manage to ride twice to three times a week at best, but she is out 24/7 and we manage her bone spavin accordingly.
I am just pondering my choices really as our son is nearly a year old and we are having the conversations about another baby. I would have no qualms riding her whilst pregnant but with baby, farm, dogs and work (plus another child!) time would become a real issue. What would you do with this mare - would you loan her out, share her or let her live quite happily in the field but with limited exercise (which I know isn't best management of her condition).
When I brought her, I saw her as a project but I am now so attached to her and very protective of her, I am concerned if I loaned or shared her someone would push her too hard and bring her lameness back, equally the work is needed to help manage the bone spavin. she costs little to keep as we have our own land and produce our own hay/straw etc.
Just interested in others opinions, whatever I did would be relatively short term until 'baby stage' was over (and I am definately stopping at two children!! ;-) _
 

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Could you get someone to share her but keep her at home? I'm sure there are lots of people who would love to hack out a few times a week and since you don't require a financial contribution it would be a great option for someone who can't afford a horse of their own. Keeping her at home means you can be confident that she wont be overworked and someone can help with the chores when you're pregnant. She sounds lovely btw.
 

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Could you get someone to share her but keep her at home? I'm sure there are lots of people who would love to hack out a few times a week and since you don't require a financial contribution it would be a great option for someone who can't afford a horse of their own. Keeping her at home means you can be confident that she wont be overworked and someone can help with the chores when you're pregnant. She sounds lovely btw.

Agree with this, should be asy to find a shaarer if she is safe to hack and nice to handle.
 

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I agree with Shygirl - I am sure there are a lot of people who would love a horse to hack out. if you keep her at home you will still be there to ensure that she is still recieving the best quality care whilst taking the pressure off you.
 

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I agree with Shygirl - I am sure there are a lot of people who would love a horse to hack out. if you keep her at home you will still be there to ensure that she is still recieving the best quality care whilst taking the pressure off you.

I know this is the most sensible option but I have had a really, REALLY bad experience with a sharer for a previous horse and just nervous of that route - though i am sure there are a lot of very wonderful sharers out there!
 

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I can totally understand that. Maybe just make sure you have a good chat with them and maybe try to find a more mature person - perhaps someone returning to riding after having a family if your mare is sensible? I tend to find older people are less likely to want to gallop about everywhere than teenagers. And most importantly go with your gut instinct!
 

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Agree with if someone else wants to ride her for you in exchange for ie looking after the horse. I think to allow the horse out of your sight so to speak I am afraid my experience and friends we have found other people often dont care as they dont own the horse. Just my experience even if they say they wont ride it hard they probably might??

Glad you like your horse one lucky horse whatever you decide. I like mine too and in his retirement enjoy looking after him.He wont be going anywhere.

Good luck busy time for you!
 
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