HufflyPuffly
Well-Known Member
Is there a point you come down to a fence and just feel confident?
If so how do you end up at that point?
I'm still at the stage of panicking to a fence that we're going too fast/ too slow/ long stride/ short stride/ cr*p no stride/ omg that looks massive! I'm trying my best to ignore that narrative and remember cuddle with my ankles (specific for Skylla that one, she's too hot for 'too' much leg, but we need some leg so that is now our analogy ), hands forward and sit up. She's a good egg if a little feisty, so I'm not sure where all the doubt comes in, maybe I just need to give it more time still?
What I have found interesting is that height of fence is almost irrelevant, if I set up a course of 70cm fences I will still find one to panic over (wide oxers generally), but a single 90-1.05 fence I'm happy to kick on at if my brain has deemed it 'ok' I know I'm weird!
My plan last night was to set up a small course, around 75cm, pop round, put it up, pop round and repeat. We've done a ton of grid work recently and generally feeling more in control to a fence, so thought we could work on keeping a rhythm round a course in a height that should be well within our comfort zones. What actually happened was I thought I rode terribly, panicked over the oxer and so didn't put any fences up, but did manage some rhythm round the course 'ish and practiced some tight turns. I've realised I'm killing the canter down too much in the quest of control, so for the wider/ bigger fences I need to let the handbrake off (Skylla is thrilled ), but it is such a battle with my head to 'let go' to a fence.
Any words of jumping confidence wisdom HHO'ers?
This is last night, doesn't look as hideous as I was convinced it was, though my trade mark red face shows either fear making me sweat or how hard I was working
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If so how do you end up at that point?
I'm still at the stage of panicking to a fence that we're going too fast/ too slow/ long stride/ short stride/ cr*p no stride/ omg that looks massive! I'm trying my best to ignore that narrative and remember cuddle with my ankles (specific for Skylla that one, she's too hot for 'too' much leg, but we need some leg so that is now our analogy ), hands forward and sit up. She's a good egg if a little feisty, so I'm not sure where all the doubt comes in, maybe I just need to give it more time still?
What I have found interesting is that height of fence is almost irrelevant, if I set up a course of 70cm fences I will still find one to panic over (wide oxers generally), but a single 90-1.05 fence I'm happy to kick on at if my brain has deemed it 'ok' I know I'm weird!
My plan last night was to set up a small course, around 75cm, pop round, put it up, pop round and repeat. We've done a ton of grid work recently and generally feeling more in control to a fence, so thought we could work on keeping a rhythm round a course in a height that should be well within our comfort zones. What actually happened was I thought I rode terribly, panicked over the oxer and so didn't put any fences up, but did manage some rhythm round the course 'ish and practiced some tight turns. I've realised I'm killing the canter down too much in the quest of control, so for the wider/ bigger fences I need to let the handbrake off (Skylla is thrilled ), but it is such a battle with my head to 'let go' to a fence.
Any words of jumping confidence wisdom HHO'ers?
This is last night, doesn't look as hideous as I was convinced it was, though my trade mark red face shows either fear making me sweat or how hard I was working