horsemad32
Well-Known Member
Been asked to help various people out while I'm not riding much (some once or twice, some longer-term). Not for £, just as a favour. It's quite fun and it keeps me busy, plus they're riding at a level I know I get good marks easily at, and have trained horses beyond successfully, so I'd hope I would at least help a bit!
So - the question. With every single rider so far, the issue blocking them from progressing is a basic one. It might be how they rise to the trot, their general security/balance in the saddle, how they carry their hands, how still their hands are, tipping forward a little... the list is endless lol! Luckily all so far have been kids, so they haven't minded too much when I stuck them on the lunge, instilled correct seat/hands/legs/seat aids, then allowed them their reins back and ensured they understood how contact works, and how to apply this effectively. It's worked really well, and there's been some really nice progress made in all of them, that hopefully will be tested in competition in the next month or so.
HOWEVER - a couple of adults have seen the kids progress and have now asked for the same. I have the time, but having seen them ride, they need the same thing! How on earth do you tell an adult that their contact is inconsistent because their balance is all over the place when they rise to the trot? And that this is because they're standing up in the stirrups not swinging their hips forward/back for the rise? Would an adult agree to lunge lessons and major basics changing, just so they could get better marks at prelim with a more consistent contact?
Obv I've had no instructor training or I'd know the answer to this, and as I said the lessons are favours, with it being very clear I'm not qualified and am just doing my best to pass on what I know. They've seen the improvement in the kids and want the same, but is it better just to say I haven't time, would they really listen to me anyway?
So - the question. With every single rider so far, the issue blocking them from progressing is a basic one. It might be how they rise to the trot, their general security/balance in the saddle, how they carry their hands, how still their hands are, tipping forward a little... the list is endless lol! Luckily all so far have been kids, so they haven't minded too much when I stuck them on the lunge, instilled correct seat/hands/legs/seat aids, then allowed them their reins back and ensured they understood how contact works, and how to apply this effectively. It's worked really well, and there's been some really nice progress made in all of them, that hopefully will be tested in competition in the next month or so.
HOWEVER - a couple of adults have seen the kids progress and have now asked for the same. I have the time, but having seen them ride, they need the same thing! How on earth do you tell an adult that their contact is inconsistent because their balance is all over the place when they rise to the trot? And that this is because they're standing up in the stirrups not swinging their hips forward/back for the rise? Would an adult agree to lunge lessons and major basics changing, just so they could get better marks at prelim with a more consistent contact?
Obv I've had no instructor training or I'd know the answer to this, and as I said the lessons are favours, with it being very clear I'm not qualified and am just doing my best to pass on what I know. They've seen the improvement in the kids and want the same, but is it better just to say I haven't time, would they really listen to me anyway?