Why does he pull 'my heart' strings......

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Not sure where this is going but...........anyone ever bought a project / short term purchase and never ends up selling?

I will try and keep this brief......I needed a companion for my foal last year at weaning time, rather than buying a little pony I decided to buy a young horse so laminitis risk would be minimal then the idea was to break them in and sell them on. So bought the 1st horse I went to see, took trailer and although he was lame I brought him home ( i knew he was 1/10th lame and just needed time off in the field). Anyway I certainly made the right choice and did his babysiting duties 100%.

Although very easy to break he does have a special character, was sooooo.. naughty and could get very anxious - sometimes it would take over 20 mins to even get on him...he terrified everyone at his first two shows ( thought he was champion the wonder horse!) and even tried to get through the top door of my IW trailer - again bringing chaos to the show ground.
He could bring a new meaning to being 'nappy' and had a temper.

So now.....he hacks out 100% heaviest traffic and I can now mount him without even holding his reins and from the ground if needed out hacking, he is less anxious,being nappy and having a temper is pathetic - you sit there and he gives up, most of all he loves to do 'outings' on his own - especially in the trailer, jumps double clears, placed sometimes.........but most of all its his personality, I have never owned a horse that truely believes he is a dog and loves to be pampered.

Ok so the selling bit(or loaning).........why am I struggling, I have too many horses and he was never selected as a lifetime horse but it actually makes me feel sad thinking about it.
I think its because I know how he was and what he is now......trying to find a home that can be so understanding is not easy, I need the impossible experienced ( ex comp. ) rider that wants to do loads of hacking and do low level stuff and most of all has patience - they just don't exsist.

Anyway if you didn't have a glass of wine before you deserve one now..............
 
Yes I did this 4 years ago and the mare had some serious mental problems! I still have her now and wouldn't sell her for the world, she is now my main horse.

You just have to think that there will be someone out there who will love him as much as you.
 
Yes I did this 4 years ago and the mare had some serious mental problems! I still have her now and wouldn't sell her for the world, she is now my main horse.

You just have to think that there will be someone out there who will love him as much as you.

Yes..........but I can't even get the motivation to advertise him, today he hacked out with a different horse and he led all the way but had a moment when he was scared to pass something, resulted in a temper tantrum.........then he decided ok I will go past it - I never hit him and just sat there and let the moment pass. My question is how many other people would behave in the same manner without losing their temper!!
 
I know you've had this on your mind for a long time so this probably is the right thing to do. If something keeps coming back and back into your thoughts then I tend to go with it.

I would say advertise him but be completely honest about what he's like and vet any home that he goes to. Just because you've advertised him it doesn't mean that you have to sell him to the people that come to see him. For every nutter out there that he would be completely unsuitable for there'll be someone that will give him the love and care that he needs.
 
I know you've had this on your mind for a long time so this probably is the right thing to do. If something keeps coming back and back into your thoughts then I tend to go with it.

I would say advertise him but be completely honest about what he's like and vet any home that he goes to. Just because you've advertised him it doesn't mean that you have to sell him to the people that come to see him. For every nutter out there that he would be completely unsuitable for there'll be someone that will give him the love and care that he needs.

How is your little project doing....?
 
I totally agree it is always hard to let go (rode for a dealer for many years) but you will always have the last as to who is able to buy/loan him. I did advertise my mare but of the 5 people that came out none of them were suitable and I turned them down. Whilst he is your horse you have the decision as to where he is rehomed.

Selling horses is never easy, tell us some more details/piccies? - good luck!
 
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She's stunning when she's going well and evil when she's having a tantrum. Frankly I could live without the bronking and the violent spooks but they are becoming less frequent. I'm not giving up so we will get there. Having a horse that is permanently like this isn't an option.

It'll just be all the sweeter when we end up winning the dressage championship at the RC show!
 
Fancy a swap?
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She's stunning when she's going well and evil when she's having a tantrum. Frankly I could live without the bronking and the violent spooks but they are becoming less frequent. I'm not giving up so we will get there. Having a horse that is permanently like this isn't an option.

It'll just be all the sweeter when we end up winning the dressage championship at the RC show!

Lets revisit in 6 months time..............I bet she is a different horse, look how far she has changed in the short time you have had her.....
 
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