why is life such a bitch?????

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sort of horsey,

I've just lost my Mum, my horse is really broken and seems to have more problems every time I look at him, I've lost one of my good friends and I'm really miserable

pointless post sorry, must be the g&t talking

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step away from the gin, hun, it's a right downer, guaranteed. always makes me cry even if nothing was up in the first place. they used to call it "Blue Ruin", you know...
really really sorry to hear that you've lost your Mum, it sounds as if everything is against you at the moment.
don't know quite what else to say, other than that things WILL start looking up, you just have to try to keep soldiering on.
(((hugs)))
 
So sorry to hear your having such a bad time. Seriously stop the gin, I love it but it s a truly depressing drink. Hit the whiskey instead.

Edited as I've just had a large whiskey...
 
know what your going through, lost my mum last week, was very sudden, didnt get a chance to say good bye or that i loved her,the funeral is on monday. i hadnt seen her in nearly a year, luckaly had spoken to her on the phone at the begining of the week. just wished id made more time for her, hidesight is a wonderfull thing.........big ((hug))
 
I'm so sorry Jump to it....I didn't see my Mum either, although it was only a few days. Your Mum would have known you loved her, be brave for the funeral, I know its really hard, but you will survive.....pm me anytime if you want a chat. xxxxxxx
 
Hugs to you..... Looking on a more positive note, I've always been told that bad things happen in 3's, by what you've said you've had your 3 so hopefully your luck's now changed...... Thinking of you and positive vibes sent your way......
 
Hi,

How terrible, I really feel for you. Drinking isnt the answer (esp not gin as it does make you cry anyway!)

I had alot of totally [****] stuff happen a year or 2 and I was thinking it couldnt get worse and it did. When everything is [****] you just have to keep ploughing through it and in time it will get better.

It made me realise that even when the worst possible thing that could ever happen happens, something nice will come and you will feel happy again, it might not be for ages but it will happen.

<<hugs>>
 
Life will get better again. Don't be a martyr, be selfish and do some thing just for you that makes you really happy, some times you have to be agressive about getting happiness back into your life.<<hugs>>
 
It never rains but it pours as they say (whoever "they" are) It's horrible when it feels like everything is crashing down around you, have been there myself so know how you feel. It doesn't seem like there's any hope but I promise you that things will get better it'll just take a bit of time.
Your horse may be broken but i'm sure he/she will still be a listening ear for you to talk to and a warm body to hug. Lots of hugs coming your way ((hugs)) Take care x
 
Oh God sorry. I have absolutely nothing to make things better other than time is a good healer, and things will get better... I hope horsey gets 'fixed' shortly.

I hope the new year brings you better luck.x
 
Oh bless you, poor you
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When my dad died I was in a mess and that evening sank a large amount of sloe gin. It knocked me out like being hit over the head with a shovel and the hang over that followed was so severe I couldn't think about anything other than how ill I felt. Not a prescribed route and lots will tut, but as a one off it certainly helped (although haven't touched sloe gin since)
 
Sorry you are having a rotten time of it lately but hang on in there and things will get easier to deal with

Can vouch for that having lost both my MiL and my own Mum in the space of a month this time last year.

(((hugs)))
 
Oh hun. Many, many hugs to you.

Sometimes life just throws too much at us, and all we can do is keeping taking little steps. Someone once asked Churchill how he got through hell - his response was something like 'One step at a time'.

I used those words not that long ago - had to have my horse put to sleep last October; had an op (no more children) last November; my Mum died on Boxing Day; had to have my St Bernard put to sleep in January. During this, got my new horse 2oth December, she was broken by 1st January.

Life sometimes is just such a sh!t and it's hard, so bl00dy hard to deal with. It's not fair and what makes it worse is that no-one ever said it would be fair and there's no-one to complain to or who can make some of the really tough things right. All you can do is get through each day and hold onto each good thing (no matter how small, or how non-earth shattering it is).
 
I'd say step away from the gin, but if its acting as a small comfort, there's not much harm in one or two. I am so sorry for your loss, and absolutely echo the suggestion to just be utterly selish for a bit, put yourself first and be gentle with yourself.

(((big hugs to you))))
 
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