eva
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had an argument with somebody at the yard today, was lost for words, and wondering what you'd say. they are saying it serves them right if they weren't listening to you? 
Last week end there was a programme on West German TV about Rosarion, a stallion sold at three and bought back by his owner so save him being put down at six. He had suffered a broken jaw because he was ridden with a heavy hand. The vet who looked after him said that every time you pull on a horse's head which is in the vertical, you have an effect on the jaw that feels like someone kicking you in the shins. Sounds a good reason not to yank on its mouth.
I argree with your original post.Like I said, every horse is different - I know what works for mine, and I guess I was playing devil's advocate but I don't think you can generalise like that.
I actually disagree with you there charleysummer. Sometimes my boy gawps all over the shop. If I'm asking him for something, and I ask him fairly and he still gawps around, sometimes I'll give him a sharp (quick, not hard) tug to get him listening.
this might happen once, or possibly twice in a schooling session and I usually get a good response.
What I can't abide, however, is someone continually (i.e. with every stride) socking the horse in the mouth. Far better to ask once, firmly, and get a response than to dally about "being nice".
I guess it's each to their own. what works with one horse won't work with the next.
I have been sitting on my hands, but can't help myself. I would love to know what school of horsemanship suggests that the way to attract a horses attention is to either sock it in the gob, or jab it with spurs! If that is the 'normal' method of communication, then it is akin to the families that constantly shout and scream at each other, with no-one actually listening to anyone else at all.
Last week end there was a programme on West German TV about Rosarion, a stallion sold at three and bought back by his owner so save him being put down at six. He had suffered a broken jaw because he was ridden with a heavy hand. The vet who looked after him said that every time you pull on a horse's head which is in the vertical, you have an effect on the jaw that feels like someone kicking you in the shins. Sounds a good reason not to yank on its mouth.
they are HORSES, not horse shaped people FFS!
I actually disagree with you there charleysummer. Sometimes my boy gawps all over the shop. If I'm asking him for something, and I ask him fairly and he still gawps around, sometimes I'll give him a sharp (quick, not hard) tug to get him listening.
this might happen once, or possibly twice in a schooling session and I usually get a good response.
What I can't abide, however, is someone continually (i.e. with every stride) socking the horse in the mouth. Far better to ask once, firmly, and get a response than to dally about "being nice".
I guess it's each to their own. what works with one horse won't work with the next.