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oh ive got my self into a mess kinda!
ttomorrow is our yards league and im going riding in it for the first time. its not a proper show or anything and i was so excited all week and now today i feel sick thinking about it and dont want to do it anymore! :S any help? :(
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If you really don't want to do it then don't! We ride because it is fun and we enjoy it :)
If you think you might regret not having a go, why not go and take part in the bits you feel comfortable with, not doing anything that makes you too nervous. If you get you and the horse/pony ready and then feel as bad, what have you lost by not entering? If you get yourselves ready you may feel more able to take part.
I think what I am trying to say, is go and be prepared to have a go, but also be prepared to pull out if you are not happy with any of things you would be 'expected' to do if you do take part.
 
yorksG said:
If you really don't want to do it then don't! We ride because it is fun and we enjoy it :)
If you think you might regret not having a go, why not go and take part in the bits you feel comfortable with, not doing anything that makes you too nervous. If you get you and the horse/pony ready and then feel as bad, what have you lost by not entering? If you get yourselves ready you may feel more able to take part.
I think what I am trying to say, is go and be prepared to have a go, but also be prepared to pull out if you are not happy with any of things you would be 'expected' to do if you do take part.
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yeh my friend was saying the same thing. and she was saying to me that if i dont do it i will regret it tomorrow. which is true! im just nervous cos its my 1st time but i know comet will be really good for me! :)
 
Have a crack at it - once you get going you'll probably find your nerves disappear and you become the "demon competitor" on the yard!

Have fun :)
 
If you feel you cant do it then dont thats your choice, if you want to then go for it dont worry what happens just have fun.

I have always been taught to not care what other people are saying about me which is great but have had years of very shameful family and horses ha ha,
so you cant show me up and i dont care, but whats the worst thing that can happen.
If these people are really nice they will support you if they are just awful they will be rude so who cares about there opinion .
The best thing is just to put it out of your mind other than helpful nice peoples opinions, and just laugh off whatever happens real horsey people will suppport you we all have to start somewhere.:)
 
Missed the last post before reply well done you, bet that shut up a fwe screwed up faces.
Hope this has given you a bit more faith in yourself to go on just shows you what you can do.:D
 
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