Trish C
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Apologies as this may not make much sense, will probably be very long and rambling as I'm a little upset. Not really sure what I'm asking, only has anyone any tips for ticklish horses and how would you feel about/handle the following situation?
'Easy' issue: I'm currently clicker training 'stand', as for grooming/mounting/riding he messes. I'm now getting a reliable stand for grooming, and today had a nice quiet stand to hop on. I'm sure that a lot of the messing he does is because he's incredibly ticklish - 'shivers' a lot when touched on withers/belly and swishes his tail. Occasionally picks up a back leg and stamps it but he's never kicked out. Todayin the school he kicked out his outside leg (not bucking) occasionally in canter transitions. However, it didn't bother me too much as it wasn't really unseating. Is this a symptom of ticklishness/freshness/me being too heavy with the leg or is it just a bit of a cheeky protest? Should I be worried or just keep working with him and see what happens? (Checked back - no lumps/bumps/reactions, teeth done three weeks ago)
'Difficult' situation: (has upset/worried me)
I just got a call from yard manager to warn me that when one of the lads (G) tried to bring Monty in, something had happened. Monty can be a bit of a pain to catch sometimes, and he's wary of new people, G hasn't handled him before. He's especially funny about people he doesn't know being on the right of his head (previous mistreatment?). All I know is that G went to catch him and he messed around a little (turning and walking away) then when G tried again he knocked G somehow - think it might have been that G tried to headcollar him from the right and Monts shied away and accidentally knocked him with his jaw? Very hazy on the details. G then threw the headcollar down and shouted, so Monts naturally p*$$ed off across the field. YM left Monts to settle a while then caught him fine.
YM tore strips off G telling him that she doesn't what that kind of behaviour around any horses, let alone a paying livery etc. G stormed off, hopped on his brand new horse (only had it three days) and took off at pace. YM rang me just to keep me in the loop, which I'm grateful for.
So now I'm worried/upset because I don't know exactly what happened:
I want to know exactly what happened, for my own peace of mind or so that I can deal with it/warn others if he did. YM didn't see the full incident (only G's reaction) and I do really like G... but YM's telling off didn't go down well - so how do I find out what really happened without upsetting G further?
Really, REALLY sorry for the rambling. It's just shaken me a bit and upset me to be honest
Loads of booze/chocolate for anyone who takes the time to read/reply.
'Easy' issue: I'm currently clicker training 'stand', as for grooming/mounting/riding he messes. I'm now getting a reliable stand for grooming, and today had a nice quiet stand to hop on. I'm sure that a lot of the messing he does is because he's incredibly ticklish - 'shivers' a lot when touched on withers/belly and swishes his tail. Occasionally picks up a back leg and stamps it but he's never kicked out. Todayin the school he kicked out his outside leg (not bucking) occasionally in canter transitions. However, it didn't bother me too much as it wasn't really unseating. Is this a symptom of ticklishness/freshness/me being too heavy with the leg or is it just a bit of a cheeky protest? Should I be worried or just keep working with him and see what happens? (Checked back - no lumps/bumps/reactions, teeth done three weeks ago)
'Difficult' situation: (has upset/worried me)
I just got a call from yard manager to warn me that when one of the lads (G) tried to bring Monty in, something had happened. Monty can be a bit of a pain to catch sometimes, and he's wary of new people, G hasn't handled him before. He's especially funny about people he doesn't know being on the right of his head (previous mistreatment?). All I know is that G went to catch him and he messed around a little (turning and walking away) then when G tried again he knocked G somehow - think it might have been that G tried to headcollar him from the right and Monts shied away and accidentally knocked him with his jaw? Very hazy on the details. G then threw the headcollar down and shouted, so Monts naturally p*$$ed off across the field. YM left Monts to settle a while then caught him fine.
YM tore strips off G telling him that she doesn't what that kind of behaviour around any horses, let alone a paying livery etc. G stormed off, hopped on his brand new horse (only had it three days) and took off at pace. YM rang me just to keep me in the loop, which I'm grateful for.
So now I'm worried/upset because I don't know exactly what happened:
- I'm worried that Monty may have done something like kick out (v out of character tho) and put G at risk.
- I'm worried that G's reaction could've upset the work I've been putting in with Monty on his shyness and his stand. I like G so don't want this to become an issue with us, but if I'm back to square 1 with my horse I can't help feeling I know who to blame

- Also worried because G's horse is so new and a bit flighty. G didn't tell anyone where he was going and set off at an absolute tear down the lane and has been gone for ages. YM's husband has gone out to look for him. Worried that if something happens my horse is at the root of the problem

I want to know exactly what happened, for my own peace of mind or so that I can deal with it/warn others if he did. YM didn't see the full incident (only G's reaction) and I do really like G... but YM's telling off didn't go down well - so how do I find out what really happened without upsetting G further?
Really, REALLY sorry for the rambling. It's just shaken me a bit and upset me to be honest