Doormouse
Well-Known Member
My 4 year old has thus been horizontal - easy to break, been all sorts of places and been very laid back but she has always been very spooky and looky and now she is feeling stronger and fitter she is getting to be a bit of a nuisance with it. Mostly she just pokes and peers at everything from a large leaf to a twig or whatever but the big spooks are somewhat extreme. She rarely makes a fuss about large really frightening things, brilliant in traffic etc but a change of colour in the ground or an unexpected pile of feathers - panic!
I know this is fairly normal for many youngsters but the problem I now have is that she is only 15.1hh, very short, short necked and a bit like trying to sit an elastic band in a bad mood! When she spooks, she shoots sideways and leaps away from whatever it is she has seen and I am really struggling to stay on board. She managed to shed me in a field the other day because she saw a stone that had been hit by the baler (think grey flecks on the floor) and she literally vanished out from underneath me. I should have had hold of my neckstrap but I wasn't expecting it to be honest. I really don't want this to become a funny habit as she is so difficult to sit to, just wondering if I could do anything to desensitise her to things like this?
I know this is fairly normal for many youngsters but the problem I now have is that she is only 15.1hh, very short, short necked and a bit like trying to sit an elastic band in a bad mood! When she spooks, she shoots sideways and leaps away from whatever it is she has seen and I am really struggling to stay on board. She managed to shed me in a field the other day because she saw a stone that had been hit by the baler (think grey flecks on the floor) and she literally vanished out from underneath me. I should have had hold of my neckstrap but I wasn't expecting it to be honest. I really don't want this to become a funny habit as she is so difficult to sit to, just wondering if I could do anything to desensitise her to things like this?