Nayumi1
Well-Known Member
So a couple of weeks ago I bought my own horse - Lunar. She's a 6yr old reschooled ex-race (that never raced). She is a very forgiving ride, really responsive to aids etc. I've been riding her most days to learn/get to know her and for her to get to know me. Every day we (mostly me) make more and more improvements.
I then have my partners daughter (15yr) who has done fortnightly lessons at a riding school for the last year and a half. She is wanting to ride her, compete her etc. My partner asked me last night to do a lesson with her tonight to show her how to ride her. I said that I didn't feel comfortable doing it as I am learning to ride myself, but he responded saying she's my horse and she wants to learn to ride her. I suggested more lessons with another instructor but he said I've already learnt those basics from that instructor (still learning, putting into practice etc)
I suppose my other concern is she is super keen to ride her as much as possible and compete her, jump her etc but I spoke to my partner about it and he ensures me that part is an over excited teenager.
I have a really good relationship with her so it's not about being sour eggs. How would you handle it?
I then have my partners daughter (15yr) who has done fortnightly lessons at a riding school for the last year and a half. She is wanting to ride her, compete her etc. My partner asked me last night to do a lesson with her tonight to show her how to ride her. I said that I didn't feel comfortable doing it as I am learning to ride myself, but he responded saying she's my horse and she wants to learn to ride her. I suggested more lessons with another instructor but he said I've already learnt those basics from that instructor (still learning, putting into practice etc)
I suppose my other concern is she is super keen to ride her as much as possible and compete her, jump her etc but I spoke to my partner about it and he ensures me that part is an over excited teenager.
I have a really good relationship with her so it's not about being sour eggs. How would you handle it?