Jango
Well-Known Member
So I've had a totally awful morning at the yard today
I've owned my horse about a month now and up until this week he was settling into the yard fine. Then this week a new horse has gone out in his field and another has gone back out after lameness and he's come in with 3 bites/kicks this week. It's a huge 35 acres with around 12 horses in. On this yard you can either turn out in this field or the 'day field' which is full of ragwort. I'm starting to feel like it's only a matter of time until he comes in lame or really hurt. I spoke to the farmer who owns the yard and he said I can move into the day field, but can't move back to the original field if it doesn't suit my horse. Or if other peoples horses are getting beaten up too he will look at removing the horse thats causing the problems.
The schooling facilities at this yard aren't great either, tiny/dust indoor next to a farmers yard (tractors,dogs etc) or a field which is winter is pretty much always too wet (it's in manchester!!) but I was willing to put up with the lack of riding space if my horse was happy. Which he now isn't!!
The problem is im working abroad for 4 months over winter and he will be getting turned away, is it too much moving for him to move yards now for 2 months then again in dec for him to be turned away? I'm going to look at another yard tonight which sounds lovely but is pricey - Dean Valley in stockport? I can afford it though and it seems you get really top facilities for your money.
I thought I knew about the stresses of owning horses from loaning them, I expected things like lameness and injury but nobody told me how stressful it is trying to make decisions about their welfare! I just want him to be happy and well! I'm starting to think I never should have bought him when I knew I was going away. I love him to bits and we get on great and our lessons are going well but I'm getting really upset about it all and I don't know what to do for the best. To make matters worse my best friend is on my current yard and loves it and she won't say it but I know shes gonna be pretty pissed off at me for leaving.
Sorry for the rant, I've just got no-one inpartial and horsey to talk to!
The schooling facilities at this yard aren't great either, tiny/dust indoor next to a farmers yard (tractors,dogs etc) or a field which is winter is pretty much always too wet (it's in manchester!!) but I was willing to put up with the lack of riding space if my horse was happy. Which he now isn't!!
The problem is im working abroad for 4 months over winter and he will be getting turned away, is it too much moving for him to move yards now for 2 months then again in dec for him to be turned away? I'm going to look at another yard tonight which sounds lovely but is pricey - Dean Valley in stockport? I can afford it though and it seems you get really top facilities for your money.
I thought I knew about the stresses of owning horses from loaning them, I expected things like lameness and injury but nobody told me how stressful it is trying to make decisions about their welfare! I just want him to be happy and well! I'm starting to think I never should have bought him when I knew I was going away. I love him to bits and we get on great and our lessons are going well but I'm getting really upset about it all and I don't know what to do for the best. To make matters worse my best friend is on my current yard and loves it and she won't say it but I know shes gonna be pretty pissed off at me for leaving.
Sorry for the rant, I've just got no-one inpartial and horsey to talk to!