Yard trouble makers!

[Morrigan_Lady]

I was in the school jumping Arch last night (after he'd broken sharers hand!) when the farmer comes in and asked to have a word with me.
He asked me if I was happy at the yard, so I said yes, coz I am! And he said that 'some one' had told the YO that I wasnt happy and was thinking of leaving! I said I was happy but Im not now, coz some one is trying to course trouble for me. I was ragin and still am very p1ssed off. The farmer says he hates bitches, back stabbers and tittle tattle, so I told him he's talking to the wrong person and should speak to this person whos saying this. Im sooooo fed up, its just one thing after and another at the yard, if my horse wasnt so sodding happy there and the yard wasnt so good, maybe I would leave, coz Im sick of this. I go up the yard, keep myself to myself, do my horse and go home. Isnt that whats its about!
I no who it is thats saying all this aswell, its that stupid bloke again that got my dog barred from the yard. Bit of a co-incidence (sp?) that he's been away for 2 weeks and all has been good, then the moment he's back this happens!
And anyway, even if I wasnt happy, why should anyone else care anyway!

Should I approach this idot with no life, or just leave it alone?

 

[Shilasdair]

Avoid mad people....it may be contagious

S

 

[kerilli]

i'd just leave it... you've made it obvious who the troublemaker is, so hopefully the farmer will sort it out with the YO and the tittle-tattler.
i'd keep out of it, that way you look saintly, and with a bit of luck, nightmarebloke will get kicked out.
good luck!

 

[sallypops]

the exact reason why i left my old yard the bitchiness does my head in everyone was saying horrible things about everyone else, i tryed to keep out of it, but in the end i left! and for what i hav heard through the people there who are still my friends many others have left.

i would advise you to keep out of it unless you felt confronting the person would do any good

goodluck!!

 

[Turnover]

Moonwalker, I am borrowing my friends login to respond to you. As you know I recently left the yard after 3 yrs due to H becoming ill. I kept myself to myself, hacked out on my own, paid my bills on time, stuck to all of the petty rules that changed on a weekly basis and did not get involved in any of the bitching, but is was constant for the whole 3 yrs I was there. As my husband said to the farmer when I left " it will be someone else in 3 weeks time" At the last count 3 people have been asked to leave this year. my advice is if you know it is a particular person then confront them and try and sort it out if it is not then I am afraid from my experience of the place your card is marked and its only a matter of time.

PM turnover if you want to talk to me