YO logged onto my facebook

councillor said:
Have changed my password, almost feel violated..it was a private conversation, why should I say sorry for that? Im way way over 16 by the way....my husband is going to go mental !
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well i'm glad you are over 16 lol;) it's still creepy that he'd want to go through your private messages tho, i think i'd let hubby go a little mental at the YO!! might make him think before doing it again, and it is a violation, as bad as someone coming into your house and going through your things:mad:
 
If you haven't already set it up, it would be wise to go to the privacy/accounts page and set the security alert feature.
You'll find it in the general settings :/ account settings at the top of the page, it's the quickest way to get notification if anyone ventures into your account.

One of my personal favourites is to send yourself a message with a general theme of what you think of the knobber who's reading your messages. May as well give them something beefy to read :D
 
in that case - if you are certain he has hacked into your account - tell him net time he says anything that you will be speaking to the police.

tbh - i would just get off the yard if you hate it that much.
facebook is not a great tool.
 
councillor said:
My YO logged onto my facebook and read private messages between myself and my friend (who also keeps her horse at this yard). Anyway he didn't like what was been said as the main topic of conversation was about how the yard is run and what pisses us off.
Now this conversation lasted over an hour, we were just venting, and a lot of things were said that would never be repeated.
Anyway he came to me today and went on about it, and how he was so disappointed and upset with us. well yeh he would be, we didn't hold back.
But
He went on to my face book account and sat for two hours watching our convo....is that not worse? After all it was a private conversation. and if you lug into other people talking you generally don't like what you hear.
What the hell was he doing on my face book??? I am wrong in thinking that is way wrong...snooping in my private messages??
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If he hacked your account then that is stepping well over the mark and could be classed as fraudulent behaviour by FB! Saying that what would possess a YO from even attempting to hack a FB account??
 
Hmmm this smells very fishy to me tbh.

So your yo randomly chose you to hack outf the whole yard, he knew your email and managed to guess your password the proceeded to read your pms then confront you about it???

Has he spoke to the other party? Which yard is this please?? As I think I would like to warn my friends about this yard if this is the behaviour of a YO. Feel free to pm me off the board,

Altho this does seem off to me
 
Fishy in what way? As someone helped me work out he could do it after I had logged onto my FB on his PC to show him and some others some pics..his computer would have stored my info even though I logged out.
No I am not going to tell you what yard, as I have no clue who you are.
 
So your going to keep the name of the yard a secret when the YO is hacking accts of people?

Your already telling strangers about yourself and ranting to us on a public forum where you YO doesn't need to break in to see.

Fishy as I have said before? I wouldn't look in a friends fb had they logged into their acct on my pc never mind one of my customers. I can't see a decent person doing that and if this is the type of person this YO is then people need to be warned

Also keeping it a secret makes it look like a whole cloth story I'm afraid
 
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NiknKia said:
So your going to keep the name of the yard a secret when the YO is hacking accts of people?

Your already telling strangers about yourself and ranting to us on a public forum where you YO doesn't need to break in to see.

Fishy as I have said before? I wouldn't look in a friends fb had they logged into their acct on my pc never mind one of my customers. I can't see a decent person doing that and if this is the type of person this YO is then people need to be warned

Also keeping it a secret makes it look like a whole cloth story I'm afraid
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i dont agree

i wouldnt tell any randomers where my yard is.....especially on such a large forum as this.......

bad or not.! how does OP know your not gna go nck her horse? burn it down (i know your probably entirely curious/bothered) but who knows?!
 
Thats the problem with putting yr feelings on FB.
I do think its so sad that people these days cant actually say what they feel, just in case it upsets someone else! I know I cant openly talk about my real feelings on here because someone I know comes on here, reads about it and then tears into me because of what I have written!
 
It sounds like he got exactly what a snooper deserves, and yet he has absolutely no conscience about what he's done – he even had no problem admitting it to you. Very weird. Very very weird. I'm not sure I'd be comfortable in that yard any more...
 
benson21 said:
Thats the problem with putting yr feelings on FB.
I do think its so sad that people these days cant actually say what they feel, just in case it upsets someone else! I know I cant openly talk about my real feelings on here because someone I know comes on here, reads about it and then tears into me because of what I have written!
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Well they will read that too!!

No problem with putting your feelings on facebook really as it was done in a private chat like MSN....... The OP is a victim imo xx
 
my friend got sacked from a nannying job because she put up a status slagging off her boss, something about being treated like a effing slave running around after spolit brats.

She forgot she had added her boss..

Another one of my (friend is the wrong term) people i know but dont like because they have no morals, added a load of people he worked with, signed a probabtionary contract and then put up of facebook about how he hated work and then a string of 'hope i get the interview' 'wish me luck on the interview' etc... obviously they didnt keep him on and he ended up jobless.

i find it funnies when its obvious someone is cheating on their partner because this random girl starts liking every single thing on their FB, and they reciprocate, and then all of a sudden the random 'thinking of you' statuses start popping up etc.
 
sorry haven't read all the posts but I unless you have your password as your horses name or something I can't understand how this happened. Must be bluffing I reckon
 
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