rachyblue
Well-Known Member
I have a beautiful 3 yr old warmblood, who is freshly backed and as you can imagine, is a typical young wb, very sharp and a bit random.
I've had someone more capable than me schooling him on, and he is going great now, but before that he had me off a couple of times, and I'm hesitant about riding him again. I used to be an ok rider, but had a couple of year gap after my old boy passed away, and he has knocked what little is left of my confidence. I don't think I'll be doing him any favours riding him as I feel he needs someone more confident.
The only problem being I am a soft ****** and am quite attached to him (had him since a yearling) and he is a carebear to handle and very affectionate - in short I love him to bits.
I have several options;
1. Grow a pair, sell him and replace with something more sensible (though I really don't want to sell him).
2. Put him on long term loan, and get myself something more sensible on loan (but who wants to loan a baby?).
I can't really afford to keep two at the same time.
What would you do? I would really prefer not to sell, the ideal would be someone who has "outgrown" their more sensible ned and is after a new challenge, but like me is attached and doesn't want to lose touch. But that never happens in real life
I've had someone more capable than me schooling him on, and he is going great now, but before that he had me off a couple of times, and I'm hesitant about riding him again. I used to be an ok rider, but had a couple of year gap after my old boy passed away, and he has knocked what little is left of my confidence. I don't think I'll be doing him any favours riding him as I feel he needs someone more confident.
The only problem being I am a soft ****** and am quite attached to him (had him since a yearling) and he is a carebear to handle and very affectionate - in short I love him to bits.
I have several options;
1. Grow a pair, sell him and replace with something more sensible (though I really don't want to sell him).
2. Put him on long term loan, and get myself something more sensible on loan (but who wants to loan a baby?).
I can't really afford to keep two at the same time.
What would you do? I would really prefer not to sell, the ideal would be someone who has "outgrown" their more sensible ned and is after a new challenge, but like me is attached and doesn't want to lose touch. But that never happens in real life