shadowboy
Well-Known Member
A new work friend has asked me to help her look for a horse. I was very suprised to be asked, yet quite pleased that she valued my opinion esp as ive only known her for 2 1/2 months! She wants something fairly young as she feels shes ready to bring one on. ( Im in two minds on this as shes got a school master at the moment that 15 years old and had a schoolmaster before that, yet ive seen her ride and her flat work is very good, and she is a very quiet rider.) Anyway, what concerns me is the number of young horses out there for sale that are broken in and in work, some are even competing. Often warmbloods are not fully grown till 6 so to see a 3yr 2 month old warmblood on a x-counrty horse is quite upsetting to me. The problem is that these are the ones who look talented in videos and pictures and have atracted my colegues attention- im trying to put her off as i feel that these horses are too young and need some play time. I'm not against low level 'work' such as the odd hack or a play in the school for 10-15 min but dressage comps and x-country seems too much for a 3 year old. (and ive even seen some 2 year old for sale in work)
This is probably going to be a contraversial post as there are many of you out there with race horses etc, but having a warmblood myself i know how slowly they mature. How can i put across my opinion without spoiling her excitement of looking for a horse- she is a lovely lady with a warm heart but i think shes getting carried away with seeing all these pictures of beautiful youngsters (she has £8000 to spend)i dont want her to think im jealous of the money she has to spend etc as im not (i have a lovely youngster and a tb schoolmaster so am happy with my lot) or perhaps you guys think that its ok, i may well be wrong and over-reacting. I await your opinions. Feel free to tell me im wrong!
This is probably going to be a contraversial post as there are many of you out there with race horses etc, but having a warmblood myself i know how slowly they mature. How can i put across my opinion without spoiling her excitement of looking for a horse- she is a lovely lady with a warm heart but i think shes getting carried away with seeing all these pictures of beautiful youngsters (she has £8000 to spend)i dont want her to think im jealous of the money she has to spend etc as im not (i have a lovely youngster and a tb schoolmaster so am happy with my lot) or perhaps you guys think that its ok, i may well be wrong and over-reacting. I await your opinions. Feel free to tell me im wrong!