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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Thank you everyone !!! Everyones thoughts are really appreciated !! and I really do try to think of it the other way round with my OH , re if he was wanting to moan about having an expensive golf trip ro what have you and yet he couldnta afford it , but the thing is , My horses are at home at...
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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Thanks guys , I know from being on here , That although we can all have our problems and squabbles with our OH's and others, HHO really highlights how there are soo many Lovely , Nice, kind , Thoughtful and generous Guys and OH's out there , and I seem to have found myself a pretty rubbish one...
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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Rudey , I understand totally what you are saying about buying my old ,mare back , similar to your story with warmblood mare, however the quirks and badness she has is the same as when i had her first time round, she can just be a little naughty , I have seen her recenetly and ridden her , no...
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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Ashleigh_ For only been 17yo , I like your relationship theory , you are very correct , with your views on values, loyalty , trust , happiness and respect etc . : ) : ) xxxxx
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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Thank everyone !!!! I was having serious doubts before Xmas and was close to chucking him , But thought try and make best of xmas as had to do all family visits etc etc!! Thanks guys , I know couples need to give and take and such like, but there have been times when i have been willing to...
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    Kind,Generous OH's & Their Good Deeds?? & Not so Kind OH's/Exes??!

    Sorry , Rather Long and wandering !! I am a regular HHOER , posting under this name to be Anon . Having Dilemna with regards to my OH , Been together 2 and a bit years now . In this time , my work has been on /off /on / off . I have 3 horses of my own , and have had a few to back and bring...
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    Coloured Friesian / Cross Breeders Northern England ???

    I seen an advert for a lovely coloured friesian sporthorse type around a month ago but cannot remember where , was a stud i think , anyone know of this ???? x
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    Clever Legal People, Can you do Small claims for Damages in Scotland?

    Just wondering re my previous post re defamtion / slander etc . If it is possible to raise a small claims action in scotland for damages ??? police officer dealing with it says , the guy has had a warning from him and also from my solicitor , and he has been breaking the law in what he has...
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    Any Lawyers etc ?? Advice needed on pursuing Slander/defamation case?

    thanks guys , will be speaking to police, solicitor first thing monday and will keep you posted . I see what you mean re site hosting ,it says at bottom of page who ia website is with . will get onto them too . thaanks everyone xxxx
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    Any Lawyers etc ?? Advice needed on pursuing Slander/defamation case?

    thanks for that guys !! previously i have asked him to refrain from doing this , as have the police and a solicitor ! so he is still continuing it , he is disregarding me, police and solicitor , so i think i need something a bit stronger to tell him !! he has now linked these tall tales from...
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    Any Lawyers etc ?? Advice needed on pursuing Slander/defamation case?

    thanks guys !! he was told a couple of months ago not to contact me or continue to harass / bother me , spread lies , so he is STILL doing it and has stepped it up a gear by writing these things up so they are visible on the web! it isnt really a cse of ignoring it , it is causing more than...
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    Any Lawyers etc ?? Advice needed on pursuing Slander/defamation case?

    I am a regular hhoer , just under dif name for anon. With regards to horses in a way , but not directly related . Via email and a popular social networking site there is a guy who i know vaguely who is by the things he is saying to other people / posting on his social networking page etc ...
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