I agree with this, all the talk about going together as if they understood what was happening. I find it hard to believe they had both reached the end of the road at the same time.
Makes sense, despite everybody and his dog having an opinion on what to do with him, the two people concerned are having a think and not making any decisions just now.
Having him on loan and knowing him so well is a huge advantage if you are wanting to buy a horse now. I would be wary but I wouldn’t rule out a healthy 19 year old at the right price