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    Question for sharers - financial contribution?

    My sharer pays £20 a week for 3 days, so £80 a month. She doesn't have to muck out. I certainly wouldn't be happy paying £90 a month for just 1 day a week!! I agree with chaps89 that it could be a time problem for the owner if you cut down your days. I would suggest you speak to her and see...
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    Sharer dilemma

    Thank you all for your replies. Shils - I can see your point, but it honestly does work both ways. I only like my horse to jump once a week, and so that she gets to jump every week, we share a night subject to ground conditions. I'm always careful to ensure that we do equal, and it's not...
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    Sharer dilemma

    Thankyou everyone, you can all have cake! I'm glad that people don't think I'm being unreasonable (have been worrying ever since yesterday's text - I'm a terrible worrier!). Will see what happens when we meet for a chat. Her contract is up for renewal at the end of next month so will see how...
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    Sharer dilemma

    Hi all I am a regular user posting under a different name as you never know who reads the boards! I have a sharer for my lovely mare, who is 6 years old. I don't like her to be jumped too much, as due to her breed she's still growing and maturing, plus the ground is currently like concrete and...
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