To be honest I think you are over reacting. conniegirl has done nothing but to give you advice and examples which you have taken the wrong way. Your horse is nice but not anywhere near the level needed to show and place in a HOYS qualifier ( which is what you came on here to ask) enjoy your...
I am currently 3 months post op. I would not or could not ride at the moment still I had a acl reco 2 meniscus repairs and a lateral release. I still walking with a limp it is swollen and hurts and aches on varying scales. Since the graft does not ' take for 9 months I would be very very wary...
From mypoint of view as a sharer You need to be honest to yourself and can you potentially give her the time she needs to get up to speed?
But if she has the basics a bit of support and could be just what everyone needs? Give her some boundries and some lessons on stable care and riding your...
Yes! Love two rein lunging I have done round the bum and over the back. I find give a much more stable feel to the bit and they act more as reins with you being able to 'feel' the heavier side and discourage leaning and theirfore promote a much more independent carriage.
SHares I have had in the past I have always paid a financial contribution. Using your own instructor is sensible and something I have always done as can keep harmony when working with horse and looking at the same goals.