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    who to report to?

    It's their land, they have been aggressive with other family members since their arrival, I was hoping that if I approached them in a friendly manner as they don't know me it was better than their usual method. But I am anticipating the husband to get involved and start shouting at me, in which...
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    who to report to?

    Advice needed please. The owner of 5 horses in the neighbouring field has been poo picking and throwing it in the adjoining hedge bottom, some has come through to our field. We are the owners of the hedge. We have indoor stables to which the back is approx. 1 yard away from the boundary. There...
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    yes it was a prelim - at a livery yard holding a venue - with a total of 30 entries for 4 classes!
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    My smile was even biger when I read this!LOL
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    I'm sorry - I had to smile as I pictured this ! it conjured up a multitude of images that I didn't out to think too much about. There are some seriously strange people out there aren't there?
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    After all the comments on here it appears that there are a lot of rude judges out there. I did feel bad afterwards about it all but on hindsight and on a different note, if these bullies aren't challenged they will carry on doing it.
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    I believe your horse should like clean and tidy whenever you leave the yard , but I also thought that dressage is about correctness and manners - there are no marks to be gained for turnout!
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    This is possibly the most disgusting thing I have seen

    I agree - I suppose there would be too much paperwork. It is truly heartbreaking, I felt sick when I saw the pics, I've got a piebald and that poor pony looked like her laid dead. I do believe very strongly in karma though and whoever did it will get their come uppence one way or another
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    funny you should say that - the previous one had to be cancelled due to lack of support!!!!!
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    possibly - which is what made me worry about it, but would many have had the strength to just walk away when she was so abusive and out of order? We have had some problems at home which has made me quite tense and on this occasion I didn't have that strength. We both knew she had done the walk...
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    was you taught anything?(apart from not going back there) Thats the lesson we learnt as she is the in house judge apparently - its the first time we'd been for a couple of years - it will be the last
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    thank you - agree with all
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    Yes I believe in Karma, I think she was being very patronising - success going to her head etc?
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    you are so right and luckily everywhere else she has been the judges are lovely. On hindsight snobbery does appear to be the root of it, she(the judge) is successful, however she did miss that movement and didn't like to admit she was wrong, but the confrontation could so easily have been...
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    inappropriate behaviour for dressage judges?

    my daughter did challenge the comment but she just was not listening - and yet again when I tried to back my daughter up that she had done the walk and with witnesses - the judge came over and into my face - my daughter was still on her horse in the centre of the arena - you really had to be...
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