Recent content by Serephin

Sorry it didn't work out. Thats what I am afraid of. Extra stress is something I really want to avoid at all costs. I am too tired!

You are making some big assumptions there. Hardly stringing her along, only mentioned it a few days ago! She wasn't looking either. Nasty post.

Yes! Thats totally it. I would prefer to be doing it myself. �� I am going to have a good long think. I realise I am lucky to potentially have someone so enthusiastic. I am pretty good at sticking to a routine, and prefer things that way, something too flexible would stress me out...

Yes, thats a good idea. Feeling a bit better about it all now.

He really enjoyed being played with after being a field ornament, he was pretty keen too!

That is helpful, thanks. I would feel better with a proper agreement, then everything is down in black and white and we know where we stand. Did you write your own agreement?

I am trying to figure out if its my gut or my reluctance to relinquish control. And maybe a bit of jealousy as she is braver than me and is planning all the things she wants to do with my horse.

I don't intend to sell him, no. Which I have told her. I hope to have more time once my little girl is a bit older. I suppose I just need to get used to the idea, I am feeling a bit rushed, so just need to put the brakes on a bit. I am going to try and focus on the positives. I got on him again...

I am thinking of getting a sharer for my horse as he is not doing much at the moment and I have lost my confidence as he was a bit nappy when I first bought him. Its a girl I know and she is very keen, but its freaking me out a bit as I feel like she is rushing me and I want to take it slowly...

I'm going to see if there are any fitters in my area, its worth a try, so many people have said they are good!

Oh, I know, I often fished out a fair sized bean from my gelding. I meant elusive in as much as a lot of people don't know they exist, let alone where to find it! I am always met with looks of horror when I mention having to remove it! 😄

Could it have been the elusive 'bean'?

I think it might be because I have ridden in a barefoot for nigh on ten years now, so traditional saddles make my bum ache just looking at them!

And my existing barefoot I use a barefoot pad. It doesn't have the vps system as I did try one of those a few years ago, my horse spooked at a bunny, the saddle slipped right round and deposited me on the floor! My old type cheyenne doesn't budge at all, but does seem to leave pressure point...

I did read your review of the Ghost, Kaiser, a shame it didn't suit for you. It sounds like such a good saddle. I am going to trial one in a couple of weeks, and I am hoping it'll do the job. I am do like the tree free saddles, I phoned them yesterday and left a message. I like the fact that...