Karran
Well-Known Member
One year ago I went and collected this rather angry, frightened and confused little collie-dog.
We've had blood, tears, LOTS of poo incidents and several people tell me that "when I get bored of trying to fix her, there's only one ethical option".
One behaviourist told me "there's nothing I can suggest that will help you. That you're not already doing."
She's destroyed my house and car. Took two days to want to be on the same floor of the house as me.
Given both me and Mrs Spaniel grey hair. She's launched herself out my house to herd cars driving down my road. I've sat on her to pin her to the floor to stop her assaulting friends. I've lost track of the people I've apologised to after she's rugby-tackled them in the park. I've made mistakes with her and had to earn her forgiveness and put them right.
There has been lots of self-doubt, thoughts that a better, more experienced owner would be able to deal with her better.
That maybe people were right and I should take her on a one-way vet trip. She was so close to going over the edge and becoming truely dangerous.
But we're getting there. Covid has given us a lot of time to work together. Now she often goes off to make friends with people (although choosing to go to drunks in the park wasn't her smartest move.) I actually had a stranger compliment us on her "lovely temperament" this week, - I nearly cried!
We may still have tried to take on a roadsweeping van recently but there's been no jogger/cyclist incidents this week at least!
We've started our agility and flyball adventures. She has dog friends and is learning how to make friends politely. We've got a goal of Kennel Club Obedience Bronze to achieve this year Covid permitting.
Groundwork with the horse is almost spot on with a bit more to do before she can fully hack out with us.
I am careful who she is around and I dont know if I will ever fully trust her around strangers because of her history but who knows what the future holds.
Another year and she might be a Good Dog!
I am dubious about posting the bite pictures for fear of backlash... but here goes.
We've had blood, tears, LOTS of poo incidents and several people tell me that "when I get bored of trying to fix her, there's only one ethical option".
One behaviourist told me "there's nothing I can suggest that will help you. That you're not already doing."
She's destroyed my house and car. Took two days to want to be on the same floor of the house as me.
Given both me and Mrs Spaniel grey hair. She's launched herself out my house to herd cars driving down my road. I've sat on her to pin her to the floor to stop her assaulting friends. I've lost track of the people I've apologised to after she's rugby-tackled them in the park. I've made mistakes with her and had to earn her forgiveness and put them right.
There has been lots of self-doubt, thoughts that a better, more experienced owner would be able to deal with her better.
That maybe people were right and I should take her on a one-way vet trip. She was so close to going over the edge and becoming truely dangerous.
But we're getting there. Covid has given us a lot of time to work together. Now she often goes off to make friends with people (although choosing to go to drunks in the park wasn't her smartest move.) I actually had a stranger compliment us on her "lovely temperament" this week, - I nearly cried!
We may still have tried to take on a roadsweeping van recently but there's been no jogger/cyclist incidents this week at least!
We've started our agility and flyball adventures. She has dog friends and is learning how to make friends politely. We've got a goal of Kennel Club Obedience Bronze to achieve this year Covid permitting.
Groundwork with the horse is almost spot on with a bit more to do before she can fully hack out with us.
I am careful who she is around and I dont know if I will ever fully trust her around strangers because of her history but who knows what the future holds.
Another year and she might be a Good Dog!
I am dubious about posting the bite pictures for fear of backlash... but here goes.