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LauraWheeler

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I just wanted to say how wonderful you all are. I have been going through abslute hell for a while now and it all just seems to be getting worse and worse. :( I realy can't see it getting better. But I always know i can come on here and let it all out to people who actualy care and understand.
Today has been a very tough day for me and i don't know how i would have got through without you lot. I know this sounds silly but i realy do have noone else to talk to. The people in my life who are supposed to care about me don't and everyone just seems to use me for what they want and then use me as a doormat.
The support I recieved on here through Lucys illness was amazing. So many people thinking about her and asking how she was doing and after i lost her the support has continued. Thankyou so much to everyone who has joind Lucys memorial page on FB. 73 people have joind but only 9 of them actualy knew Lucy I have invited others to join but they havn't bothered. I can not express how much all your support means to me. It is realy helping me to get through the worst period in my entire life (and with the life i've had thats realy saying something)
Thankyou all for putting up with my depressed posts and for being so supportive even though you have never even met me. I wish I knew more people like you in real life.
 
I can relate completely. Only have a very small handful of people here I can really talk to down here tbh compared to home, so HHO is the same to me too [warts and all lol with some of the posts haha!].

Vibes still heading your way all the time :) Shall be a year in a couple of weeks for Tommy :(
 
Big big hugs, again :) I joined you memorial group, and am always here as a shoulder to cry on. You were a brilliant owner and you were both so lucky to have found and loved eachother so much xx
 
You may not see things getting better. Right now you're going through hell, you've just got to keep going and come out the other side. You can do it, and you're doing great so far :) This forums a wonderful place and there'll always be someone there to listen. I'm only a PM away if you want. I've joined the Lucy's face book page :) You've got to remember, the great memories you two had, and that Lucy had a wonderful life with you, she was incredibly lucky to have found you. So chin up, keep smiling, you can do it :)

Nick.
 
Sounds like things are looking a little black for you at the moment.But look up in the sky tonight and the brightest star is Lucy. I know because my Gran said so,before she died many years ago and she said will always be there looking over my left shoulder, because she loved me and Lucy will be looking over your left shoulder, because she loves you so you are never alone. I've lost many loved pets,horses dogs cats cows and pigs, but I'm never alone if you know what I mean.:):):):):)
 
thankyou VioletStripe we where luck to have found each other. She saved me as much, if not more than i saved her.

Thankyou Brontie I try to remember all the good times but right now all i feel is pain and guilt.
 
You've got nothing to feel guilt about. I have just watched your vids on youtube. Looks like you two had an endless amount of fun together. Hope things start to look up for you.
 
It was an honour to be allowed the access to yours and Lucy's story that we all shared. and an honour to remember her on FB.

Chin up hun, time will heal, or at least dull the pain.

Hugs xxxxx
 
I'm (A LOT!) older than you are Laura, and have said goodbye to many dear four legged friends. The loss of each has been equally heartbreaking, most recently my beloved lurcher Juno who was PTS in June, and I still weep daily for the hole she has left in my life. But each of them has made up the fabric of my past, as Lucy has to yours, and in time, when you are ready, others will touch your heart and fill your life. You will carry her memory with you forever, and other memories will be added which will enrich your life. I believe that each of us will have "the horse of a lifetime", and maybe you have already had yours, but there are others who will be waiting for you in years to come. This wasn't meant to sound like waffle (!) but I'm just trying to say that you will one day move on, it doesn' really become any easier, but somehow you get used to it. Love Tass
 
a big hug for you, i really feel for you. i am only new to this, but you know it does feel like a wee family here, i am glad to be apart of. hope you feel better, always feel free to pm mail, if you need to talk to someone. hope you ok, another big hug, oh nad i think hot choc is a call for, oh and cookies.
 
Thankyou all.

MrsMozart your Hot Choc is appreceated as always.

R.A.H we did have a wonderful time, we did so many things and had a go at just about everything we could.

Tass I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Juno xx
 
76 members.

Laura, I think you're fabulous. If only people got what they really deserved in life, you would be having the best life ever.

xx
 
charm thankyou. Cookies would go down a treat right now.

JenJ thankyou still only 9 who actuly knew her :mad: :rolleyes: Hay ho I didn't expect anything else to be honest. Atleast i have you lovely lot :) I know it sounds awful but i realy wish some people would get what they deserved and i don't mean in a nice way either. :mad:
But ours is not to question why.
 
You and Lucy found each other for the reason that you needed each other then. All the lessons you learned with her will be there for you to share with other horses in the future, in that way Lucy will live on and help to make other horses lives better :)
I do not think that you have anything to feel guilty about, if it was because you were on holiday, then please give Lucy the credit I think she should have for sparing you the very end and from sparing herself from having to say goodbye.
 
I also have followed your posts and wept for you and Lucy, I think you
seem to be an amazing woman, you do have an inner strength and will get through this.
Don't get bitter about life, just believe in Karma

Thoughts are with you XX
 
Lots of hugs and vibes for you Laura xxx

I am relatively new here and didnt get the whole story of what happened with Lucy and yourself but from what I did get it sounded like you have an amazing bond and that you enriched each others lives immensely. Im sure she was as grateful for every moment spent with you as you are for the moments spent with her.

I am going through a bad patch too and although I have the most wonderful OH and I know lots of people have got it worse than me I still cant help but feel likea black cloud is hanging over me and your right its nice to come on here and vent to like-minded people.

Please know your not alone and although you dont know me feel free to pm and vent any frustrations. I am grateful for all the lovely people on this forum such as yourself and will offer all the support I can xx
 
Thankyou yorksG I realy believe we found eachother for a reason. She helped me and is the reson i'm still here and now even though she's gone in a way she is still the only reason i'm still here. I want her memory to live on and i want to help as many ponies as i can have there last chance and make it count. Just like Lucy did.

Thankyou flirtygerty. I do feel a bit bitter tonight but with very good reason. Tomorrow i won't though as theres no point it would just drive me mad, I do believe in what goes around comes around and everyone will get what they deserve in the end. I just need to keep going with my life.
 
4faults (((((hugs)))) to you during your tough time to. I know there are people worse off than me to. I'm lucky I still have Herbs and Charlie Brown. Although they will never replace Lucy or even come close to her they are still both very special. Herbie is lurning to trust and love again and if he turns into 1/4 of the pony Lucy was i will be so happy. But non of this would be possible if it wasn't for everything Lucy taught me for She taught me to trust and love.
 
Herbie sounds like such a bubbly little character and he is very handsome, I hope you have a great time with him. Lucy will be the brightest star in the sky on those clear nights, always watching, never fading.
 
Herbs deff has lots of character Bless him :rolleyes: He'll come good though he's not as bad as Lucy when she first came into my life, not by a long shot.
 
Thankyou sm I'm not doing to bad thanks. Been at work all morning now am back to fin off the last of the packing before the OH picks me up at 6. Then we'll be back tom to pick up Herbie and the rest of my stuff. I'm still very sad but realy feel better than i did yesterday. Thankyou again to you all. I don't know how I got through yesterday but i did and being able to come one here and talk to you lot realy helped. Now just got to face the rest of my life but atleast now i can try to get on with Herbs. xx
 
Hi,

I have always followed your story on here but have never posted before. I just wanted to say how much I admire you for carrying on and believing in Lucy when other people would have given up.

You have had me balling so many times especially over your YouTube videos.

Lucy touched a lot of hearts even though many of us have never had the honor to meet her.

It's tough now but things will get better and we are all here to support you and make you smile when you need us.

She will always be remembered here. May she rest in peace and I am sure is is galloping around and watching over you from where she is.

A xxx
 
Chin up Laura. You've lots of support on here and you'll get through this tough time, however bleak things seem right now. Don't know why you feel guilty. Lucy couldn't have had a more loving owner and Herbie is a lucky boy to belong to you.
 
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