Greylegs
Well-Known Member
.... sorry ....
We lost our old lad a couple weeks ago, sadly, after a mystery illness which our vet now thinks was most likely caused by a tumour in his sinuses. Today, I fetched his ashes back from the vets after an individual creation. I wasn't expecting them to come back in a small, neat pine casket with his name engraved on a brass plaque on the lid. We had planned to scatter them somewhere but my OH now says he doesn't want to do that as he can't think where would be the best place.
So, what do we do with them. Keep them in the house (feels a bit like we're not tying to move on), bury them in the garden (we'd have to leave him behind if we ever get round to moving), scatter them somewhere (we can't decide where ...). The dog had a habit of sleeping behind Mr GL's favourite arm chair, where he felt safe and comfortable, so that's where is at the moment. But longer term, he can't stay behind the arm chair forever, can he?
What did anyone else do under the same circumstances? Thanks all .....
We lost our old lad a couple weeks ago, sadly, after a mystery illness which our vet now thinks was most likely caused by a tumour in his sinuses. Today, I fetched his ashes back from the vets after an individual creation. I wasn't expecting them to come back in a small, neat pine casket with his name engraved on a brass plaque on the lid. We had planned to scatter them somewhere but my OH now says he doesn't want to do that as he can't think where would be the best place.
So, what do we do with them. Keep them in the house (feels a bit like we're not tying to move on), bury them in the garden (we'd have to leave him behind if we ever get round to moving), scatter them somewhere (we can't decide where ...). The dog had a habit of sleeping behind Mr GL's favourite arm chair, where he felt safe and comfortable, so that's where is at the moment. But longer term, he can't stay behind the arm chair forever, can he?
What did anyone else do under the same circumstances? Thanks all .....