ImmyS
Well-Known Member
Basically I am a bit down in the dumps at the moment. I have had to give up my career and come home to live with my parents since my dad has become very ill. He will be in hospital for the foraeeble future - at least a few more months. I am also horseless. Although I have a couple I can ride it's just not the same and its getting me down. I am hoping to start university in either September or April to do nursing so quite a full on degree with placements etc but I will be living at home as uni is only 15 mins away.
My problem is I keep finding myself looking at horses and it's starting to drive me a little crazy. It seems like the worst time with my dad in hospital and the fact he might need quite a lot of help when he does come home, and I will have a part time job and a uni degree to focus on but I just feel like there is a hole in my life.
I am 19 and my own person, but I know I would be judged and advised against getting another horse by my mum, but I feel like I'm wasting too much time not doing the things that make me happy just to people please.
My question is - in my position would you get a horse? I want a horse of lifetime something young, maybe two that just needs some consistent handling but time to be a horse for a couple of years before needing more time and funds for backing and breaking. There is a yard a stones throw from my house so no matter what I could get to the yard at least once a day. I just don't know if it's selfish of me when my family is in a pretty terrible situation.
What would you all do? please help!
My problem is I keep finding myself looking at horses and it's starting to drive me a little crazy. It seems like the worst time with my dad in hospital and the fact he might need quite a lot of help when he does come home, and I will have a part time job and a uni degree to focus on but I just feel like there is a hole in my life.
I am 19 and my own person, but I know I would be judged and advised against getting another horse by my mum, but I feel like I'm wasting too much time not doing the things that make me happy just to people please.
My question is - in my position would you get a horse? I want a horse of lifetime something young, maybe two that just needs some consistent handling but time to be a horse for a couple of years before needing more time and funds for backing and breaking. There is a yard a stones throw from my house so no matter what I could get to the yard at least once a day. I just don't know if it's selfish of me when my family is in a pretty terrible situation.
What would you all do? please help!