A difficult morning...

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About three months ago, my sister bought a horse, who seemed to be everything she wanted.

Now, I'm not going to be drawn into comments like 'why didn't she do this, that and the other!' because it's all done and dusted, and quite frankly, we've done the best by the horse that no-one else obviously wanted to take responsibility for....

Sis took the decision yesterday after the prognosis from the vet yesterday to PTS.

It was done this morning, but due to said horses 'issues' wasn't as quite straight forward as it should maybe have been....

He was in pain in the field all the time, even with considerable bute, it wasn't touching it. He was aggresive, we put it down to the fact he was in so much pain, and it came to the point where I'd only allow me in the field to feed and put hay up, because he was more than willing to turn around and double-barrel you if you weren't prepared, after trying to bite your face off...he couldn't turn a circle without one of his back legs giving way under him, and when he walked, the foot often dragged behind.

Now, IF he didn't need so many painkillers to keep him comfortable in the field, then he would have made a nice companion for someone, but to offer a dangerous horse isn't quite the thing to do, though I know many other people don't seem to have morals about this.

One of his MANY issues was an aversion to needles, and he would freak at the vets but they had better facilities there to hold him then get him sedated for treatment, so the vet was prepared this morning, bringing an experienced extra pair of hands if needed. Shooting him was out of the question because anything 'different' freaked him out, rearing and bolting was his answer, but I had soon gotten wise to this and he was lead with a bridle which certainly helped.

The vet was absolutely amazing. In all it took about 50 minutes, from getting the horse sedated to the final injection, he explained what he was doing all the time, whilst we were both dodging hooves due to him rearing and striking out....sedation by degrees until the vet was happy he was under enough to administer the main injection.

It was all very dignified and the man who came to take him away (always have used him, excellent service) blessed him with the sign of the cross and a quiet prayer.

There were too many issues for this horse to be truly happy with his life, an absolutely massive vets bill later, my sister took responsibility for his life, that previous owners/dealers certainly avoided. His injury from waaaaaay back was too deep-seated and the vet is in no doubt that he would have been drugged up to be ridden etc etc whilst avoiding the actual vets treatment he really needed. There was nothing we could do, the damage was too great and untreatable because of previous 'lack of treatment'

In a way, yes.....there are things that could have been done differently, but I tell you what, I'd do it again. This poor horse is now out of his misery, and god knows how long he had been suffering for.....

RIP Horsie....

Edit to add - she also took advice from horse sancturies and other reputable experts who all supported her in the final decision.
 
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I don't know the details, but good for both of you for taking on the ultimate responsibility, and good for your vets and everyone involved for making the end as positive as possible in the circumstances. RIP horsie.
 
Thank you and thanks Dragonsleighbells for all your help! Certainly one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do! Xxx
 
I wish there were more people like you and your sister.

Run free x

My sis posted before seeking advice here and decided to not go down the legal route, because if the horse went back, what would happen to him? Continue to live a life of pain?

I'm always a firm believer of things happening for a reason....and yes, although we might be eating beans for a couple of months, I know we both feel better that she made the choice.
 
Thank god for people like you.

Sorry to hear about the poor horse, and for those whom can leave a horse to suffer to save a few quid i hope they come back to live the same life they bestow on these animals.

Sorry for the loss for your sister - no matter how long you only own them for they do worm their way into your heart.

Well done to the vets for making sure he went in the kindest way.

God bless
x
 
What an awful three months you must have both had.
Once the trauma of this has begun to settle hopefully you will feel some relief that this horse is no longer suffering and you managed to give him a relatively peaceful end (it sounds as this aspect must have been a worry for you too). x
 
How heartbreaking :(

Horrid that someone would sell a horse knowing the issues.

May horsey rest in peace and the sellers rot in hell
 
Really sorry to hear about it, but the horse was clearly in pain from your description and you did the right thing. Nobody should be asking questions as to "why?". Sounds like you have a fantastic vet. Thoughts with you and your sister x
 
Thanks for the comments. :)

Indeed it has been difficult, exploring EVERY option possible, horsie had two prolonged stays at the vets during exploratory treatment poor thing.....

Many discussions, options, tried things out......certainly tried our best by him...and of course surgery was dicsussed at length, but the % of success was so low....it just wasn't fair on him, put him through that....then lengthy rehab, to STILL be in pain.....?

:(
 
That sounds like a truly tough morning for you and your sister, sounds like you did exactly the right thing for the horse, very sad, e sounded like he had suffered a lot before coming to you, you and your sister have done what is best for him, rip pony, *big hugs* to you both x
 
I wish more people would do the right thing with these horses and not just pass them on. Sorry for your sisters loss it`s not easy even if you have not had him long :( x.
 
You should be proud of yourselves for helping such a horse and doing all that you could to try to get him back on the straight and narrow,even though sadly it didn't happen. xx
 
A sad story with the best outcome for the horse, if not for the people involved :( At least the animal found people who had the decency to put him first.
 
So sorry to hear that you had such a difficult morning, it does sound as if you have a fantastic vet. I have read some of your previous posts about this horse, what a good job he found you two, you definitely did the right thing by him.
I hope that Munners will not let this put her off buying another horse to ride.
 
So sorry to hear that you had such a difficult morning, it does sound as if you have a fantastic vet. I have read some of your previous posts about this horse, what a good job he found you two, you definitely did the right thing by him.
I hope that Munners will not let this put her off buying another horse to ride.

She's going to have a share on one of mine for a while :)
 
So sorry what a sad post. You did the right thing as I am sure you know and I agree that things happen for a reason and this horse was lucky to have found you and you were brave enough to do the right thing.
There is no doubt that aggression is a sign of chronic pain -I experienced this with my horse - it's the horses way of screaming they are in pain.

I am sorry it has cost you all financially, but again I say it is so good he found you and what goes around comes around.
RIP little horse
 
How sad :( I've known so many people who buy horses and find out they're not quite as described.... hugs to you both, this sounds so heart wrenching, can't imagine what your sister has had to go through :(
 
I wish more owners were like you and your sister. Your both very brave and the Horse did not seem to be very happy.

I also had a horrible morning, my YM's Horse was put down today. She had had him for 21 years. Was a very sad day.
 
That's one lucky horse to have found himself with your sister and you who have done the right thing by him.

Now galloping pain free.
 
I wish more owners were like you and your sister. Your both very brave and the Horse did not seem to be very happy.

I also had a horrible morning, my YM's Horse was put down today. She had had him for 21 years. Was a very sad day.

Awww, ~hugs!~

I 'thought' because I hadn't become 'emotionally attached' that I would be strong, but I had to walk away at one point, because yes, I HAD become attached, through all the handling, taking him to the vets, and dodging teeth and feet, they do make an impact on you.....and the sense of relief is overwhelming to know now he isn't in pain anymore.
 
I wish more owners were like you and your sister. Your both very brave and the Horse did not seem to be very happy.

I also had a horrible morning, my YM's Horse was put down today. She had had him for 21 years. Was a very sad day.

Hugs to you it's such a dreadful thing to witness, feeling very sad but also relieved he's no longer suffering x
 
thats what you must hold on to-the sense of relief just proves you did the right thing for this horse. its a hard thing for us that care for them ,but its the kindest thing for the horse. well done for being brave
 
So sorry to read your post and my thoughts are with you both. Its hard when part of ownership involves this decision but at least you and your sister recognised this and the right thing was done for the horse. Hugs.
 
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