skint1
Well-Known Member
I'm in a situation which is as follows.
My ex racer was initially living on a farm with my pony, it wasn't working great for her so in May 2009 we temporarily moved her to another yard with a school with a view to sorting her out. I continued to pay for her place at the farm because it was a short term thing only.
In August 2009 she was still at the yard with a school and had been invited to stay there. My daughter told the farmer's wife this and she did seem to take it in, in fact she said because we had paid all those months without my ex racer actually living there and of course our pony is still there, we didn't need to pay the 1 month's notice. My daughter was also fitting up the farmer's wife pony to sell at the time so she was around a lot and was well aware that our ex racer was living elsewhere.
So, that was that. Or so I thought. Yesterday the farmer (whom I have never even met despite being up there for 8 years) comes over to me and asked if I had some money for him. I thought he meant the rent for Feb/March so I said, "oh A (my friend-also has horse there) paid it to you last week, sorry it was late" and he seemed happy with that.
Then, my friend tells me that they think I owe them all this back rent for the ex racer because they thought she was still living there!! To my reckoning this is about £420.00, but really it could be any arbitrary amount they think it is, couldn't it?
Why would they not have said anything sooner? I've been up there 8 years and always paid, why would I suddenly stop with no word?
I can't afford to pay it outright, I feel like I am being mugged really but I don't think I have a choice because if they think I owe it, then I owe it and if I don't pay it it could be really ugly. The farmer has a reputation for being rough with those who cross him.
My ex racer was initially living on a farm with my pony, it wasn't working great for her so in May 2009 we temporarily moved her to another yard with a school with a view to sorting her out. I continued to pay for her place at the farm because it was a short term thing only.
In August 2009 she was still at the yard with a school and had been invited to stay there. My daughter told the farmer's wife this and she did seem to take it in, in fact she said because we had paid all those months without my ex racer actually living there and of course our pony is still there, we didn't need to pay the 1 month's notice. My daughter was also fitting up the farmer's wife pony to sell at the time so she was around a lot and was well aware that our ex racer was living elsewhere.
So, that was that. Or so I thought. Yesterday the farmer (whom I have never even met despite being up there for 8 years) comes over to me and asked if I had some money for him. I thought he meant the rent for Feb/March so I said, "oh A (my friend-also has horse there) paid it to you last week, sorry it was late" and he seemed happy with that.
Then, my friend tells me that they think I owe them all this back rent for the ex racer because they thought she was still living there!! To my reckoning this is about £420.00, but really it could be any arbitrary amount they think it is, couldn't it?
Why would they not have said anything sooner? I've been up there 8 years and always paid, why would I suddenly stop with no word?
I can't afford to pay it outright, I feel like I am being mugged really but I don't think I have a choice because if they think I owe it, then I owe it and if I don't pay it it could be really ugly. The farmer has a reputation for being rough with those who cross him.