a fat woman with a barefoot parelli trained cob

Big Ben

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May have a bit of an issue here I guess:D

So relax, breathe I don't currently own a cob, but I did have an awesome one, many years ago.

But I am a fat rider, BREATHE, keep breathing dammit, you are going to have a coronary before we start.

Hi, I'm Big Ben, followed the trail of cake crumbs from the HoFo thread being talked about in the can of worms thread, Mmmmm good protein in a worm I guess.

I am English born, and today am celebrating my 7th year in Canada, while watching the snow gently fall outside, and thinking I may hang out here for a while in the winter when it gets down to -40*C and I give up any thoughts of riding and just concentrate on surviving:D

My user name Big Ben comes from my latest horse, who is a big guy, I am currently trying to get both of us a little fitter, he doesn't have a long journey, mine is a marathon, and I am talking away here getting the nerve to actually post the pic, which I will do in a minute. You may comment, LOL, the beauty of the boards is that I can't actually stop you, but I really hope no one feels the need to post any of the "OMG you need to eat a few less cakes" type comments, you have no idea of what I do or do not eat, how my metabolism works, or doesn't, or what demons I carry. Facts are fine, I'm either to fat, or I'm not, no worries either way.

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Oh, yes he is barefoot, since I moved here I have had several horses, no one has had shoes on, but then again no one has been ridden on tarmac, concrete or other hard surface, because there isn't any around here.

Currently he is ridden for around 20 mins, every other day, walk mainly with the odd trot, and I don't expect him to do much more than that until I manage to move my weight back down a significant amount, oh yes, I now have a bigger saddle a whole 1" bigger, that is an 18, now onto a 19"

The parelli, well that comes in with my little mare, we are doing ground work, including some parelli type games with her, while both of us work at losing some weight, and getting fitter.

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Oh and the cob of yesteryear, complete with hogged mane and small son aboard

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D'you know what? I love your honesty, your humour and your bravery in posting the photo. You actually look to me as if you have a lovely position. Good luck in your weight loss venture - you will get there. :)
 
Welcome to HHO. :)

Your bay mare is really beautiful. I wish you lots of luck with your fitness programme. I'm in the same boat as I want to lose some weight before I bring my grey back into work.
 
Well, yes - if I am honest (and I am usually brutally so ;) ) you are on the larger side, but as you acknowledge this, and want to improve on it, then thats a great place to start. Whilst its not ideal, I'm fairly sure that 20 mins a day isn't going to kill anyone - you or him lol :D

Love the end pic, so obviously british, so green and with the typical hawthorn hedge in the background :D
 
Well, welcome to the forum...

Not sure what you are looking for, for us to tell you not to worry, and that you are not too big to ride? Or a pat on the back and say well done for aiming to lose weight? Not sure as to the aim of your post.

IMO you are too big to ride that horse, but congrats on being so brave to post in here!!
 
"a fat woman with a barefoot parelli trained cob" ..you know what it could be a whole lot worse, you could be hatless *grins*

p.s. welcome, and good luck with the weight loss, as a yo yo dieter myself I know how hard it is :-(
 
Omg what have I created!!! :shocked:

Just kidding, what a great post and I love the fact you have barefoot (a few instant fans : D) horses. My fave has to be your mare. Seriously welcome and hope you have loads of fun, there are so many people here who will love to follow your journey and share xx :):):)
 
Good girl! I am a fat lady with a fat cob, who is also barefoot and partly Parelli trained. (But I don't live in Canada....) Your horses are absolutely gorgeous.
 
a rider who rides well and knows their limits will ALWAYS be less of a problem than slumped jiggling all over the place riders.

You look fine and a great post! Welcome and barefoot is usually encouraged 'round these parts ;)
 
Not sure what you are looking for, for us to tell you not to worry, and that you are not too big to ride? Or a pat on the back and say well done for aiming to lose weight? Not sure as to the aim of your post.

You might understand if you'd seen Big Ben's recent input in another thread dressagelove. I think she's very well aware she's likely to get a pretty honest forthright reception here! :D

Great post and pics Big Ben. And above all, a truly brilliant thread title! ;) I think you'll fit right in here, large lady or not! :D:D

Welcome to the forum. :)
 
Well, welcome to the forum...

Not sure what you are looking for, for us to tell you not to worry, and that you are not too big to ride? Or a pat on the back and say well done for aiming to lose weight? Not sure as to the aim of your post.

IMO you are too big to ride that horse, but congrats on being so brave to post in here!!

You have to read the whole of can of worms thread.....
 
Welcome to HHO. Well you've got balls for posting that photo on here.

If that horse were mine, there is no way I would allow someone your size to ride it (or do parelli on it, but that's kind of beside the point).

Nice horse though, worth losing the weight for rather than just getting a bigger one.
 
Hi and welcome :)

You are lucky to live in canada, I would love to go there one day - its supposed to be amazing in the autumn :)
 
Hello and welcome. I like your style and look forward exchanging ideas.:D:D

Lovely horses, you have there, guess you'll have some great winter survival tips.
 
Welcome Big Ben. You look too heavy for the horse but you sound like you're being careful with what ridden work you do on him. Hope you are successful in your weightloss and that you start to really enjoy proper riding soon once you have your new svelte-like figure :)
 
My aim, merely to say hello, and to let you know who I am, so all I am doing is introducing me, and my horses, so actually here are some more to complete the story, and no I don't expect anyone to pat my back, the only sure way to get a pat on the back is lay behind a cow, nor do I expect anyone to scream get off the horse before you kill it, way to vulgar for England, with it's green grass and hawthorn hedge, and cow parsley, never thought I would miss cow parsley, but I do *le sigh*

After managing to quit my 35 year pack a day smoking habit ( I lied, I'm proud of that, will accept back pats on that one) exactly one year to the day later I embarked on my weight loss journey, and 15 months later bought myself this girl, Ace, as a reward

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I bought her mainly for the foal that she was carrying but then lost:( but I love her to bits anyway, but she is older and has been a brood mare for many years, so now she has retired with me. Through a chance meeting I found Emmy up there, a daughter of my very own Ace, which is why I bought her, and ended up with this girl as well, a seriously nice mare.

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So, I have 3 awesome horses, and owe it to them to get fit enough to be able to ride them all come spring, time to get started on fitness.
 
Welcome Big Ben (also the name of one of my favourite show jumpers)

You are brave to post with photos, but that's admirable and I wish you all the luck on your journey. Your horses are gorgeous and I look forward to seeing the photos of you doing fast work when you reach your goal.

Massive well done for quitting the smoking too!! (just so you know, I'm no lightweight and also still smoke :o so you've one up on me)
 
"a fat woman with a barefoot parelli trained cob" ..you know what it could be a whole lot worse, you could be hatless *grins*
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LOL, would take a pic without the hat just to shock, but I can't ride without it, affects my balance or something

Omg what have I created!!! :shocked:

A MONSTER!

Great post and pics Big Ben. And above all, a truly brilliant thread title! ;) I think you'll fit right in here, large lady or not! :D:D

Welcome to the forum. :)

Thanks again

Welcome to HHO. Well you've got balls for posting that photo on here.

If that horse were mine, there is no way I would allow someone your size to ride it (or do parelli on it, but that's kind of beside the point).

Nice horse though, worth losing the weight for rather than just getting a bigger one.

Balls :eek: quick check under fat layers, nope still once proud boobs heading south, not balls:D

Bigger horse, I need an oxygen mask on Ben as it is, nope, the shrink to fit option is the only way

Welcome to the forum, I think your Big Ben is beautiful. Good luck with the fitness programme and treat us to some snowy pics while we wait for ours to arrive x

I'm hoping this stuff doesn't stick, but you will get some snowy pics for sure, wont be long
 
Welcome and good luck with the weight loss, I'm sure your horses will appreciate it. No I would not allow anyone your size to ride my horse.

Pat on the back for giving up smoking (I quit 19th June 2003)!!
 
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I'm shamed - you can multi quote already! I've been here a year and a half and never found this mythical multi quote button.
If you manage to get a hatless pic make sure you are wearing flip flops or trainers too, that really gets folk going ;)
 
"a fat woman with a barefoot parelli trained cob" ..you know what it could be a whole lot worse, you could be hatless *grins*

p.s. welcome, and good luck with the weight loss, as a yo yo dieter myself I know how hard it is :-(

love your sense of humour, as above, you are brave to post on here. PNH is a good way of being able to do heaps of stuff with your horse without having to spend all your time riding, and build a good relationship at the same time.

all my horses are barefoot and have been for 20 years, I have no issues with the horses (as long as regular trims) and a much smaller farrier bill.

I am a little tubby as well, about 10 kgs over where I should be.

Good luck and welcome.
 
Welcome
Well done on quitting! 35 pack-years must have been hard to put behind you.
I'm sure with that determination you'll be down-sized in no time.
Look forward to the updates :)
 
Welcome to HHO. Well you've got balls for posting that photo on here.

If that horse were mine, there is no way I would allow someone your size to ride it (or do parelli on it, but that's kind of beside the point).

Nice horse though, worth losing the weight for rather than just getting a bigger one.


well you obviously want honesty BB so i my honest opinion is i agree with the above poster, i too think you are too heavy but 20minutes isnt going to do any harm and i wish you luck with your weight loss.

I totally respect larger riders who acknowledge they maybe too heavy and seek to lose weight to make it easier for their horses to carry them.

Its the very obese riders that shouts down anyone who dares suggest there is an upper weight limit a fine boned horse can carry that i have a problem with.
 
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