sandi_84
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My OH and I have discussed this numerous times as we both love dogs and plan to have a couple in the future.
Both of us have owned 2 dogs in the past, my girls were both rescue dogs and his were both bought from a breeder as pups.
My first girl came with a laundry list of issues from being in a very cruel home and then being bounced pillar to post a couple of times before landing with us and this is one of the reasons the OH would like to get a pup from a breeder. I can completely understand his point on this as Meg was a difficult girl to work with because of all her fears.
However after she realised that we weren't going to hurt her etc etc she became a brilliant companion for myself and parents - she looooved my dad and would go to work with him off the lead on the boats which was a massive achievement for her with all the noise and people about! - and became my best friend and a very loving girl. We were lucky with our second rescue, my current girl Poppy (mum's really
), as we got her as a pup with absolutely no issues whatsoever and again she is a fantastic wee girl who I wouldn't be without.
My argument is that I want to provide a loving and healthy home for a dog that could be great if given the chance. I was heartsick to learn that had we not chosen Meg she would have been put down the next day - now I know that with the huge amount of rescue dogs rescues can't afford to keep them forever if they don't get re-homed but I was so sad for her that she was returned twice in 2 months (3 if you include coming home with us!) because no one had the patience to let her settle and learn not to be afraid, it wasn't as if she was agressive just absolutely terrified of everything and everyone - and so I would like to give that opportunity to another down on it's luck rescue.
I think when it comes time for us to get dogs he'll probably go to a breeder and I'll get a rescue ha ha!
Anyway, sorry that turned into a complete waffle but what do you prefer (if they are not for working purposes), rescue a dog or buy a pup?
Both of us have owned 2 dogs in the past, my girls were both rescue dogs and his were both bought from a breeder as pups.
My first girl came with a laundry list of issues from being in a very cruel home and then being bounced pillar to post a couple of times before landing with us and this is one of the reasons the OH would like to get a pup from a breeder. I can completely understand his point on this as Meg was a difficult girl to work with because of all her fears.
However after she realised that we weren't going to hurt her etc etc she became a brilliant companion for myself and parents - she looooved my dad and would go to work with him off the lead on the boats which was a massive achievement for her with all the noise and people about! - and became my best friend and a very loving girl. We were lucky with our second rescue, my current girl Poppy (mum's really
My argument is that I want to provide a loving and healthy home for a dog that could be great if given the chance. I was heartsick to learn that had we not chosen Meg she would have been put down the next day - now I know that with the huge amount of rescue dogs rescues can't afford to keep them forever if they don't get re-homed but I was so sad for her that she was returned twice in 2 months (3 if you include coming home with us!) because no one had the patience to let her settle and learn not to be afraid, it wasn't as if she was agressive just absolutely terrified of everything and everyone - and so I would like to give that opportunity to another down on it's luck rescue.
I think when it comes time for us to get dogs he'll probably go to a breeder and I'll get a rescue ha ha!
Anyway, sorry that turned into a complete waffle but what do you prefer (if they are not for working purposes), rescue a dog or buy a pup?
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