A year today that I lost my boy :(

[mulledwhine]

It has been a year since I lost my boy.

A year to today at 9.30am was the last time I felt his warm breath, looked into his big brown eyes.

Gone but never forgotten xxxx

 

[sheep]

Anniversaries are very hard. Hope you get through today and are able to look back fondly on the time you had together. x

 

[Moggy in Manolos]

Thinking of you. I started getting tearful driving to the yard earlier, I lost my girl last month and life is not the same without her, its tough *big hugs* to you x

 

[Lady La La]

Know how you're feeling. A year yesterday that I said goodbye to my girl...

 

[mulledwhine]

I am a bit teary ATM, but have a full day of riding ( perhaps not the best thing !!!) but hopefully being busy will help.

Thanks guys, and to those who are also mourning a loss ((( hugs))

 

[mulledwhine]

I am also going to plant a tree where we buried him

 

[Moggy in Manolos]

I am also going to plant a tree where we buried him

This sounds like a lovely thing to do.
My girls ashes have recently arrived, my friend has them at the moment as I have not been strong enough to have them yet, lost my cat the other weekend too so just not ready.
I will get them soon, but they are safe with my friend for now. I have a piece of her beautiful mane in a box on the (inactive) fireplace at the moment, it was so symbolic of her, it is as long as my arm and has a purple ribbon plaited through it, a girl at the yard did it for me which was terribly sweet, it smells of her

Keeping busy I think is the way to go x

 

[hula]

As time goes on we never ever forget but our hearts get a little stronger and begin to mend.

Cherish your memories and try to keep your head up, where there is a will there is a way. Your lost ones would not want you to be blue. When your having a bad day just think of them, pause, smile, laugh, shed a tear and carry on

 

[mulledwhine]

As time goes on we never ever forget but our hearts get a little stronger and begin to mend.

Cherish your memories and try to keep your head up, where there is a will there is a way. Your lost ones would not want you to be blue. When your having a bad day just think of them, pause, smile, laugh, shed a tear and carry on

What a lovely thing to post, has it made me cry YES, but such a kind and fitting thing to take the time to post, thankyou xxx

Today was hard, as every kept asking me was it the anniverary, but in a way it helped as no one has realled liked to bring him up, so in a way it was nice to hear Dexters name mentioned again in converstion, by people who also loved him xx

 

[hula]

You are more than welcome sorry for making you cry x

 

[mulledwhine]

Xxx thanks hun, I am grateful for your lovely post.

Again thankyou x

 

[Inchy]

Sorry for your loss, its two montths today since my boy broke his leg and was pts I was putting away my summer rugs today and found his...brought it all back again! ((Hugs))

 

[mulledwhine]

Oh no!! Bless you xxx

Is it a comfort that some of us are going through a similar heartache ??